Suddenly being a personal care provider for my mother-in-law with extreme memory issues is simultaneously fascinating and frustrating.

I can't help but compare this to the movie _Memento_. Not that she's forgetting who she is, or where she is, but her mind is still very inconsistent with what she can remember. Often she forgets something she just said, or where she put something she was just holding 5 minutes ago.

It's fascinating to see what someone's "default" thought cyles are.

She is _constantly_ defaulting back to money as the thing she thinks about. How much something costs. How much something is worth. How much she has to pay for some perceived future expense. She behaves like she lived through the great depression, but she's been living a very comfortable lifestyle for 30+ years.

Her 2nd default thoughts are about people who died. Family, friends, acquaintances. Sometimes thinking she needs to talk to someone who is long passed.

And then finally the cycle comes back to grief over my father-in-law.

#dementia #caregiving #thoughts

'Rest On Waste' Another day in paradise.

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48 Hour vomiting bug across ward >lockdown.
...then an outbreak of bed bugs.

Filthy food encrusted furniture and poor personal care is a great combo for this nonsense.

#photography
#caregiving
#dementia

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The Employment Leave Bill strips away more workers hard-earned rights

Do you like having annual leave and public holidays? If so, you might want to make a submission against proposed cuts to them. Submissions close tonight (14 April).

Dr Bex on Social Issues in Aotearoa NZ
Wisdom for Caregivers

Drawing on Shin Buddhist teachings, Rev. Dr. Mutsumi Wondra explores caregiving as a path of compassion and insight.

Lion’s Roar

Discover the true meaning of caregiving β€” a blend of love, patience, compassion, and strength that transforms both the caregiver and the one receiving care.

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Caregiving from miles away comes with guilt, worry, and impossible choices. Practical insights for those navigating this difficult distance.
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