Day 23: My Money Candle Ritual for Abundance

There’s something tender and powerful about the moment you sit down to light a candle with intention. For me, this ritual has become one of the softest parts of my bruja practice, especially as we get close to the new moon and the new year. These seasons always make me think about possibility: the life I’m building, the books I’m publishing, the family I’m supporting, and the softness I want to wrap around myself like a warm blanket.

But let me be real, wanting money used to come with guilt. The Catholic guilt, the cultural guilt, the “be grateful and don’t ask for too much” guilt. For a long time, I felt like even saying I wanted more abundance was somehow wrong. But through unlearning, journaling, therapy, podcasts, and financial readiness books, I realized something simple and life-changing: wanting money doesn’t make you selfish. It makes you aware. It makes you responsible. And most importantly, it makes you human.

Money doesn’t replace joy, but it does make life easier. It gives you room to breathe. It gives you options. It gives you softness. And softness is what I’m chasing in this season of my life. I want to write and publish my books without panicking about invoices and printing costs. I want to help my family when they need me, without draining myself dry. I want to build a life that feels stable, aligned, and peaceful.

So yes, I light a money candle with my whole chest now. No guilt. No shrinking. No apology.

My Money Candle Ritual

Over the years, I’ve created a ritual that feels grounding and potent. It’s simple, but it works because my intention is clear, and my faith is steady. Here’s how I do it:

1. I start with a green candle.
Green represents growth, luck, success, opportunity, and financial health. When that flame catches, I imagine it lighting up the paths that bring abundance straight to me.

2. I surround the candle with coins.
Actual money around symbolic money strengthens the energy. I use whatever coins I have on hand, creating a small circle around the candle.

3. I sprinkle cinnamon onto the coins.
Cinnamon is a powerhouse for attraction. It speeds things up. It warms the energy. It whispers, “Come to me quickly.”

4. I write the amount of money I want on a bay leaf.
This part always feels intimate. I write the exact number I want to see in my account — not the dream number, not the “maybe one day” number — the amount I want available to me now.

5. I burn the bay leaf using the candle flame.
I let the ashes fall around the candle and coins. To me, this symbolizes releasing my intention into the universe, trusting that it will land exactly where it needs to.

6. I meditate and envision the money in my account.
Every night before bed, until the candle burns all the way down, I sit quietly and picture the abundance already being mine. I don’t chase. I don’t beg. I receive.

And thank God — I’ve always had money in my pocket. Even in the moments where I didn’t know how things would work out, they did. Something always came through. That consistency taught me that faith and discipline move mountains.

Letting Go of Guilt, Welcoming Abundance

The biggest shift for me wasn’t the ritual itself. It was letting go of the belief that wanting money meant I was wrong, greedy, or ungrateful. I had to learn that wanting a soft life is not the same as wanting an excessive life. I’m not trying to drown in luxury. I’m trying to breathe. I’m trying to write my books in peace. I’m trying to move through life without fear.

Abundance is not the enemy of humility. Poverty is not the requirement for goodness. Wanting stability is not a character flaw.

So as the new moon and new year approach, I’m stepping into this practice loud and proud. I’m calling abundance into my home, my work, my bank account, and my future projects. I want this year to feel lighter. Softer. More aligned. And this ritual is one of the ways I open that door.

Money comes. Money stays. Money grows.
And I trust that.

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Day 8: My Go-To Herb — Lavender, My Softest Companion

If there is one herb that has followed me quietly throughout my life, it is lavender. I do not even remember the first time I smelled it. I just know that every time I catch its scent, something inside me exhales. Lavender makes my shoulders drop. My breath deepens. My spirit softens. It is the closest thing I have to an immediate grounding switch.

I am obsessed with it.
And honestly? I am not ashamed.

I drink lavender tea.
I buy lavender soaps.
I use lavender lotions.
I carry lavender essential oils like it is emotional first aid.
If a product comes in a lavender scent, I am probably grabbing it off the shelf like “thank you, this is mine.”

But the beauty of lavender is that it is not just a nice smell.
It is a spiritual ally.
A healer.
A protector.
A soft bruja’s best friend.

When I started researching herbs and their metaphysical properties, lavender came up again and again. Calm. Clarity. Cleansing. Protection. Intuition. Dreams. Peace. A balm for the nervous system, the mind, and the emotional body. It was like reading a list of things I desperately needed during some of the hardest seasons of my life.

And then I stumbled onto something that made everything click:
Lavender is deeply tied to my astrological sign.

According to multiple sources, including the one I found on Curious Cauldron, lavender aligns with my zodiac energy in a way that feels almost fated. The herb’s softness, its spiritual grounding, its calm clarity, and its connection to intuition are traits that mirror who I am and who I am constantly becoming. It felt like lavender had been whispering to me long before I ever understood its meaning.

It was always meant to be one of my herbs.

I think that is the magic of lavender. It is gentle without being weak. It is calming without being boring. It is soothing without making you numb. Lavender does not force anything; it invites. It lets you unclench slowly. It makes space for you to breathe. It comforts you without overwhelming your senses.

To me, lavender is the embodiment of soft bruja energy.

It is the herb of the woman who is tired but still trying.
The bruja who carries heaviness but still chooses light.
The girl who grew up learning hardness but is now learning softness.
The spirit who wants both grounding and magic.
The tender heart who needs peace in a world that feels too loud.

Lavender is that hand on your back saying, “Breathe. You’re safe.”

And I think that is why it has always been such a powerful companion for me. In every chapter of my life, lavender has been there — in a bottle, a tea cup, a candle, a lotion, a diffuser, a soap bar. It has always shown up when I needed to soothe my anxiety, calm my nervous system, or reconnect with my intuition.

It is not just an herb; it is a ritual.
A comfort.
A familiar scent that feels like home.
A reminder that softness is a strength too.

So yes, lavender is my go-to herb. It always has been. And now that I know how aligned it is with my spirit, my sign, and my path, it feels even more meaningful.

If you are on your own spiritual or emotional healing journey, I hope you find an herb that feels like this for you. One that makes you feel seen. One that speaks your language. One that holds you with gentleness.

For me, that herb is lavender.
Always has been.
Always will be.

Check out this article about the herb: https://curiouscauldron.com.au/blogs/sacred-space/magickal-properties-of-lavender?srsltid=AfmBOormeE6Rdk5veB4vxNaioLca_81dZSCpJm2nXQH3pwzGVlDmw0l1

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Day 7: My Favorite Superstition

Protecting My Money and My Magic

Superstitions are funny because half the time we do not even realize how deeply they’ve rooted themselves into our lives. They show up in the small things we do without thinking. The little actions we take “just in case.” The tiny rituals we adopt because someone, somewhere, passed it down with enough conviction that our spirit said, “Okay, noted.”

Some of the superstitions I carry are tied to my Dominican upbringing. But the biggest one? The one that shaped me the quickest? That one actually came from one of my Filipino friends.

One day I casually put my purse on the floor and she looked at me like I had just slapped God across the face.

I was confused.
She was horrified.

She said, “You do not respect money. Why would you put your purse on the floor if you want abundance to come into your life?”

The way she said it unlocked something in my chest.
Not in a shameful way, but in a wake up, bruja kind of way.

Because let’s be real. I am not ashamed of wanting abundance.
Not ashamed of wanting money.
Not ashamed of wanting life to be easier.
Not ashamed of wanting generational wealth for my kids.
Not ashamed of wanting enough to bless other people too.

Money is not evil.
Money is a tool.
And life is kinder when you have enough of it.

So once she explained the meaning behind the superstition, I rectified the situation immediately. I picked up my purse like it was a baby I had dropped and made a mental note that lives in my brain rent-free to this day:

Do not put your bag on the floor.
Ever.

And I haven’t since.

Superstition or not, the symbolism lines up with something spiritual inside me. If abundance is energy, why place it on the ground where it can leak out? Why disrespect what I’m calling in? Why ask for blessings if I treat them carelessly?

I also hold onto another superstition:
If my palm itches, that’s money coming in.

But I don’t just let the itch happen.
I press my palm into my pocket, because that is where I want the money to go.
Into my pockets.
Into my home.
Into my life.
Into my future.

The superstition makes me laugh, but it also makes sense energetically.
It is intention.
It is visualization.
It is claiming abundance before it arrives.

These little rituals help me stay connected to the idea that I deserve prosperity. That I deserve ease. That I deserve more than just survival. And it connects me to a long line of women across cultures who learned to blend intuition, ritual, superstition, prayer, and humor into a working spiritual system.

They did not always have the language to explain energy.
They just felt it.
And they trusted the feeling.

So today’s Soft Bruja Challenge prompt is for anyone who has ever held onto a superstition and felt comfort in it. Anyone who whispers “just in case” while doing something that makes no logical sense but all the spiritual sense.

Hold onto the ones that nourish you.
Let go of the ones that fear-monger you.
And always choose the ones that make you feel aligned, empowered, and a little magical.

And please… if your purse is on the floor right now, go pick it up.
Let’s be rich brujas together.
Let’s claim abundance with intention.
Let’s honor the little rituals that remind us we are powerful and deserving of more.

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