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foxtoy

Oct 23, 2024

The very first nude of myself that I ever loved

#trans #lesbian #transisbeautiful #proudslut #babytrans

lj·rk Aug 26, 2024

Next #BabyTrans stage unlocked: Zipper + Miniskirt

That Frisian Girl-ish Feb 1, 2024

Hi, dear #babyTrans. This is a small piece of advice from a grumpy crone to make your #transition go easier on you, and keep some of the brain weasels down better.

Transition is the process in which you go from the idea everybody, including you, has what you should be to what you actually are. It's tempting to think you got the big ones well in hand once your egg cracks, and from here it's just implementing measures on a well known trajectory. Chronicle it all, make it public for all the others, because you've got this! Give others hope that are stuck. Write your diary for all to see as things happen, because you found something wonderful, and want to share it with the world!

Now, yes, I agree. Chronicle, journal, keep every scrap.
But also, no, I absolutely disagree. Don't make it all public just yet.

Transition is a process. You will keep figuring stuff out. You will run into unexpected difficulties. And then things become unexpectedly disheartening for others, and for you, since you've been so sure, but now... this. And "this" can be a lot of things, not just external. You don't want to deal with all that while being a very public figure. It's easier to admit that, no, this is a dead end, I need to backtrack and rethink. Or that the "big one" you thought you cracked is actually just the start of a whole flood that is much more daunting. It's tough to keep up a positive, inspiring public image while you wrestle with doubt, guilt, and in way too many cases, grief.

I don't mean "don't share". But be judicious about what. And then, when things have quietened down a bit, you can still return to your log of bits and pieces. Decide what's important, what seemed important but wasn't, and you have a very much better view of the actual red threads of what you've been up to. You can give a much better account now, with the benefit of hindsight, and you avoided all the pressure of wrestling with yourself while being on stage, on air, and constantly questioned by an audience.

It's a time of vulnerability. Treat it as such. Give yourself the space to retreat. Give yourself the possibility... to fail some of the early benchmarks that where made for you by a person who didn't know you yet.

This isn't because I can't hear it anymore. Because I can, with a sigh. This is for your benefit. Become that butterfly. Have a chrysalis stage. #trans

Arden (she/her)Jan 25, 2023

@rushraptor just to throw my experience in here as a #trans. The gender I was assigned at birth and socialised as has had a big impact on how I see myself and the way I move in the world. This effect was most pronounced in the first 12 months or so (#babyTrans) but there are bits and pieces that still persist. Not to the detriment or invalidation of my womanhood but rather I came to womanhood from a different place and that breeds diversity. I didn’t grow up under the male gaze and didn’t learn ‘beauty is pain’ till I was 26. But that doesn’t make either of those things less bullshit.