I didn't see the signs of my last two major burnouts until I was already deep in them. Or rather, looking back I saw the signs but didn't pay them heed.
I was too stuck in the thinking that I had to keep going to consider other possibilities.
I didn't see the signs of my last two major burnouts until I was already deep in them. Or rather, looking back I saw the signs but didn't pay them heed.
I was too stuck in the thinking that I had to keep going to consider other possibilities.
FYI, tomorrow is the last day for the early bird sign up bonus for my Autistic self-employment course.
Learn to build systems into your business that prevent burnout by design. It's not tips and tricks. Not "just rest more." It's real structure that creates the outcomes you want.
http://www.autismchrysalis.com/alchemy
#ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #AutisticBusiness #Neurodivergent #SelfEmployment #AutisticBurnout #SmallBusiness
Ich war heute Nachmittag mit einer lieben Kollegin in der Stadt zum Kaffeetrinken verabredet. Wirklich keine große Sache, nur ein bisschen Klönen, Updaten, Austausch in netter Umgebung.
Nach knapp eineinhalb Stunden haben wir uns verabschiedet, ich habe noch ein paar Sachen eingekauft - und habe es nur noch mit allergrößter Mühe nach Hause geschafft.
Und zuhause ging erstmal gar nichts mehr.
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#LebenMitAutismus #SpoonieLife #Stimming #Overload #AutisticBurnout
While this article was written as part of my employer’s development day, all opinions are mine alone. Before I begin, Autism and ADHD is different for everyone. I make some general statements here, but remember they don’t apply to everyone. This was written in one session, without planning where it would go. The style of writing changes as my emotions grew stronger throughout writing; I could edit it, but that is just as important to convey. As someone who was diagnosed with Autism and ADHD (abbreviated to AuDHD) in my mid 40s, I’m still learning to understand what being AuDHD means on a practical day-to-day level. Over the last six months, or so, I’ve been starting to understand my energy levels, and my resilience.
Me, 18 months ago, watching videos on adult autism: "Oh. Oh no. Oh, this explains so much."
Me, now, watching videos on autistic burnout: "Oh.... Fuck..."
Starting to wonder if I can structure my current period of unemployment to be actually restful and targeted at recovery.
One of the things I figured out on my own self-discovery journey: not doing things that don't need to be done is one of the best uses of my time.
That sounds obvious. It wasn't obvious to me for a long time.
I spent years doing things out of obligation, habit, or fear of what it meant if I didn't stay busy. Turns out a lot of those things just... didn't need to happen.
#ActuallyAutistic #EnergyManagement #AuDHD #BurnoutRecovery #AutisticBurnout