"January 20, 2026 marks the 120th anniversary of #ABintelBrief, the #Forward’s #advicecolumn, launched in 1906 by the paper’s founder and publisher, #AbCahan. Tackling the personal challenges of Eastern #European #Jewish immigrants, #Cahan and the #BintelBrief #columnists who followed him would dispatch their advice with humor, compassion, and honesty.

By 1906, #DerForverts, as the Forward is known in #Yiddish, had grown over its initial three decades to become the leading Yiddish-language #newspaper in the #UnitedStates. But A Bintel Brief — Yiddish for “a bundle of letters” — was something the paper hadn’t tried before. Well, not exactly.

In his introduction to the very first Bintel Brief, which is preserved online at the National Library of #Israel, Cahan explained that the new column had been inspired by a section of the paper devoted to letters to the editor that launched three years earlier."

https://forward.com/culture/798666/a-bintel-brief-120th-anniversary/

How 'a bundle of letters' became a cornerstone of life advice for American Jews

Started by legendary editor Ab Cahan, The Forward's advice column, A Bintel Brief, celebrates its 120 anniversary.

The Forward

My second opinion is: if you have to hustle someone at pool in order to make them a better person (curious about what bet YOU recently lost), you do the rug pull no later than the 4th game when they can still afford the bet, and then let the win speak for itself.

Teaching someone to be a better person by humiliating them, suggesting that they're lucky not to get beaten up, and then hounding their Dad for the money is highly correlated with not being welcome at Christmas.

#advice #advicecolumn

My first opinion is: don't. This has never once in the history of anything ever made anyone a better person. Just send them consecutive nightly hauntings, way more evidence-based.

#advice #advicecolumn

Apparently I have opinions about hustling your family at pool in order to teach them to be better people.

https://slate.com/advice/2024/12/nephew-lesson-gambling-family-advice.html

#advice #advicecolumn

I Decided to Teach My Young Nephew an Important Lesson During a Round of Pool. Uh, I’ve Been Uninvited to Christmas.

I went easy on him.

Slate
Finding balance in love, finance, and family: Amy Dickinson's festive advice

Have you read our first advice column? We've launched a series called "Dear Solarpunk Presents..." where we respond to questions or links or comments (etc) you've sent us about solarpunk and related things.

Not sure if something is solarpunk? Want the opinions of either @arielkroon or @xtinadlr?

We have a LOT of opinions, and we're very happy to be wrong but we can only learn if other people join our conversation.

So head over to our blog and let us know what you think!

https://www.solarpunkpresents.com/blog/dear-solarpunk-presents-is-it-solarpunk-when-billionaires-decide-to-build-a-solarpunk-city

(Disclaimer: we're not the arbiters of what is solarpunk or not; that would be very silly. This series hopes to provide a place for discussion where the solarpunk community can learn from each other!)

#solarpunk #solarpunkPresentsPodcast #blog #DearSolarpunkPresents #Advice #AdviceColumn #city #UrbanPlanning #Billionaires #SolarpunkCity #UrbanDesign #IsItSolarpunk? #QandA #Question #CaliforniaForever

Dear Solarpunk Presents… Is It Solarpunk When Billionaires Decide to Build a Solarpunk City? — Solarpunk Presents

When we make the podcast, write the blogs, and tend our Patreon garden, most of the time, it feels like shouting into the void. We occasionally hear from one of our supporters on Patreon and sometimes get comments on our various social media accounts, but what we’d really like is for discussions

Solarpunk Presents

Dear Solarpunk Presents...

We're launching an advice column! (Well, sort of...) Our first question is from a listener who wanted our opinion about the "California Forever" project to build a sustainable city in Solano County, California. Is it solarpunk?

Click through to see what California-raised @xtinadlr has to say about it, and join the conversation in the comments to share your opinion.

(Ariel also took a look at the project, but this is more in Christina's wheelhouse!)

-Ariel

https://www.solarpunkpresents.com/blog/dear-solarpunk-presents-is-it-solarpunk-when-billionaires-decide-to-build-a-solarpunk-city

#solarpunk #solarpunkPresentsPodcast #blog #DearSolarpunkPresents #Advice #AdviceColumn #city #UrbanPlanning #Billionaires #SolarpunkCity #UrbanDesign #IsItSolarpunk? #QandA #Question #CaliforniaForever

Dear Solarpunk Presents… Is It Solarpunk When Billionaires Decide to Build a Solarpunk City? — Solarpunk Presents

When we make the podcast, write the blogs, and tend our Patreon garden, most of the time, it feels like shouting into the void. We occasionally hear from one of our supporters on Patreon and sometimes get comments on our various social media accounts, but what we’d really like is for discussions

Solarpunk Presents
#1406: Photography Reciprocity

If something you needed were somehow unreasonable according to the Objective Council of Advice Professionals, would you still need it?

CaptainAwkward.com

✡️ Today's Jew of the Day is Anne Landers!

Esther Pauline Lederer took over and popularised the the Anne Landers column in 1918. Anne Landers or was an advice column in newspapers across the US and Canada. The advice column dealt with a variety of topics, but primarily focused on advice and ettiquite. Under Leaderer's leadership, the Anne Landers advice column retained much of the kind, gentle support that it had, but also promoted many radical positions at the time, and even now, including support for "women's liberation", support for homosexuality and "the homosexual lifestyle", and being pro-sex work.

Leaderer worked on Anne Landers until her death in 2002.

#JewOfTheDay #AdviceColumn #Feminist #proLGBT #ProSexWork #AdviceColumns #Jewdiverse #Mazeldon

TLDR; Value your time, and don't use helium balloons. Confused? Yeah, so were we… Find out why this is the ultimate advice of our columnists Hannah and Isabella in this week’s edition of “Ask Anything”.

Read it here to find out what on earth they’re talking about: https://outloudmagazine.com/lifestyle/value-your-time-and-helium-balloons/

#advice #outloudmagazine #agonyaunt #advicecolumn

TLDR; Value Your Time, and Don't Use Helium Balloons

Long-distance best friends Hannah and Isabella get together to answer questions submitted by the public about fulfillment, love, and helium balloons.

OUTLOUD MAGAZINE