Mutual aid for April

It's me, JJ, hi. I'm raising money for medicine and food - the single disability check pays for our family's utilities and nothing more.

I am intersex, queer, visibly disabled, biracial, schizophrenic, and probably at least a few other things that society frowns upon. Our house is falling apart, we have no hot water heater, and I'm very immunocompromised.

We need $800 to survive April - This includes doctors, prescriptions, basic medical supplies, and groceries.

You can help!

First there's Paypal. It's fast, and you can even send just a couple of dollars. Any amount helps.

https://paypal.me/ramavabray

And then there's Patreon, where our music and art and such go. You can see all the projects going on. Did you know I've been slowly working on writing enough music to be considered an album this year? Maybe I'll succeed!

https://patreon.com/ifwhen

So please help. Give if you're able, and boost. We're really struggling and need your help.

Thank you for reading, and I hope you have the kind of day you want to have.

@mutualaid @[email protected]

#disability
#MutualAid
#MutualAidRequest
#IndigenousMutualAid
#TransMutualAid
#TransCrowdFund
#DisabilityCrowdfund
#neuroDivergent
#ActuallyADHD
#ActuallySchizophrenic
#LGBTQIA
#poverty
#SettlerSaturday
#DisabilityMutualAid
#TransCrowdfund
#HelpFolksLive2026
#DisabilityMutualAid
#Queer
#QueerMutualAid

Made the mistake of trying to run two simple errands on a Saturday.

First stop, my usual grocery store. Zero open parking spots and 3 different people not up to the task of parking their stupidly oversized SUVs.

Second stop, backup grocery where I was "lucky" enough to get a parking spot, but where they didn't have half the things on my list.

Third stop, Trader Joe's. 'Nuff said.

Now home, in my basement, bordering on a complete, non-speaking shutdown.

Oh, and I forgot the coffee. Wasn't on the list, therefore didn't exist.

@autistics

#auDHD #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyADHD

Hello. I'm Alex. Hope you're doing well. It's a public holiday here in Wales for Good Friday, and probably the same where you are too.

I'm neurodivergent and my spidey-sense is tingling like crazy today. (Not having a great day.)

I'm alone and wondering if anyone else out there is alone and feels they'd like someone to chat with?!

Hello to all you wonderful folk out there on Good Friday. Hope you have a glorious Easter weekend.

Happy Easter! Pasg Hapus! ✝️🐤🥚

@autistics

#happyeaster #pasghapus #neurodivergent #autistic #adhd #cptsd #actuallyautistic #actuallyadhd

GOAL REACHED! Thank you everyone.

Counting down the hours

(950/950)

We now have one more clinic to pay for by tomorrow. We need to raise the last $80 in LESS THAN 24 hours. I'm very scared and need to be able to continue treatment.

Give if you're able, and boost. We're down to the wire, and I'm scared. Help us continue to live.

https://paypal.me/ramavabray

Thank you for reading.

#disability
#MutualAid
#MutualAidRequest
#IndigenousMutualAid
#TransMutualAid
#TransCrowdFund
#DisabilityCrowdfund
#neuroDivergent
#ActuallyADHD
#ActuallySchizophrenic
#LGBTQIA
#poverty
#SettlerSaturday
#DisabilityMutualAid
#TransCrowdfund
#HelpFolksLive2026
#DisabilityMutualAid
#Queer
#QueerMutualAid

@mutualaid @[email protected]

GOAL REACHED! Thank you everyone.

(870/950)

Thank you to everyone who's helped us so far.

We now have one more clinic to pay for by Tuesday. That's ONE DAY to raise $80. Please help! I'm very scared and need to be able to continue treatment.

Please help. Give if you're able and boost. We're down to the wire, and I'm scared.

https://paypal.me/ramavabray

https://patreon.com/ifwhen

Thank you for reading.

#disability
#MutualAid
#MutualAidRequest
#IndigenousMutualAid
#TransMutualAid
#TransCrowdFund
#DisabilityCrowdfund
#neuroDivergent
#ActuallyADHD
#ActuallySchizophrenic
#LGBTQIA
#poverty
#SettlerSaturday
#DisabilityMutualAid
#TransCrowdfund
#HelpFolksLive2026
#DisabilityMutualAid
#Queer
#QueerMutualAid

@mutualaid @[email protected]

@actuallyadhd @autistics

Ever had one of those days where, it's been so frelling long that you've forgotten what it's like to not be in burnout but you're also just mad at everything because there's no way out of burnout?

No official diagnosis & your GP threw out the preliminary test that said you're a good candidate for autism that you got years ago. The waiting list is impossibly long so by the time you:
1) Pluck up the dice / spoons to face the GP (I'm still working on it 😣)...
2) Get an appointment & (by a miracle) maybe still have the dice / spoons...
3) Actually persuade the GP an AuDHD diagnosis is what you need...
4) Jump through whatever hoops to get the preliminaries sorted...
5) Get the green light for getting a diagnosis...

... You'll be waiting so long, you won't need it anymore as you're too old to work & are on minimum pension.

My messed up bodyclock doesn't help either.

Oh, it's you Depression... 😫... Just what I need 😡😩.

I hate it when I give myself reality checks 😔.

#AuDHD #Autistic #ADHD #ActuallyADHD #ActuallyAutistic
#MindFog #Burnout #Spoons #NoSpoons
#SelfCare #Depression
#Life #Sleep #Insomnia #SleepProblems

GOAL REACHED! Thank you everyone.

870/950

Thank you to everyone who's helped us so far.

I still have one more clinic appointment, plus the remainder of the cost for the other, and both need to be paid by Tuesday. That's ONE DAY to raise $80. Please help! I'm very scared and need to be able to continue treatment.

Please help. Give if you're able and boost. We're down to the wire, and I'm scared.

https://paypal.me/ramavabray

https://patreon.com/ifwhen

Thank you for reading.

#disability
#MutualAid
#MutualAidRequest
#IndigenousMutualAid
#TransMutualAid
#TransCrowdFund
#DisabilityCrowdfund
#neuroDivergent
#ActuallyADHD
#ActuallySchizophrenic
#LGBTQIA
#poverty
#SettlerSaturday
#DisabilityMutualAid
#TransCrowdfund
#HelpFolksLive2026
#DisabilityMutualAid
#Queer
#QueerMutualAid

@mutualaid @[email protected]

@actuallyadhd @autistics

Weird, or just because of the state of the world.
Looking at you, Fart stain (trump) & you Nastyyahoo (Netinyahu(?)) In particular. Putler's (Putin's) lackies, doing his dirty work? 🤷

Woke up because of bad dream that would definitely fit in with the kind of horror movies involving the supernatural & hauntings. I don't remember much apart from the most horrendous outcome, resulting in the house, or people being haunted by a screaming baby that's completely unrecognisable because it's just this black shape, burned completely.
That's probably the bit that woke me up.

Checked the time (07:30) & tried to get back to sleep... Must have drifted as I found myself with the same people being forced to go different ways one North, the other South & a long way away from their home. They split up to wait for, I assume their respective transport.
Dream cuts to the inhuman screaming from previous dream & I'm back at the place that's now haunted by this ghost or entity of this burned baby. It's pitch black but when the ghost shows up I can still see it's shiny black form that looks like it's become more demon with more bulk & fat folds than any baby would have.
That's my cue & I'm awake. It's 08:00.

I felt awake but my eyes were & at 09:00 (now) still are, "nope, not ready."

This timeline is gross.
Why are people who have rap sheets a mile long & growing day by day in charge of entire countries, with other countries (🙄SOME other countries), mine included 🫣🤬, more or less going, "yes sir ,no sir, three bags full." for these criminals who should have been jailed years ago?!

Sorry for spreading more negativity but I needed it out & shouting at a wall or a door wasn't going to cut it.

#AuDHD #Autistic #ADHD #ActuallyADHD #ActuallyAutistic
#Burnout #Spoons #NoSpoons #Depression #SleepProblems
#Greed #PoliticalCorruption #CriminalsInPower #MassMurderers
#RapistsInPower #PedophilesInPower #ChildMurderersInPower
#EpicFails #Enshittification