The ONLY reason sports are gendered is so that men dont lose to non-men in front of other men

Theyre not worried about all the non-men losing/being humiliated or injured or sexualized, tho those are the pearls they will be loudly and immediately clutching

They know those things will happen to the men, a lot, immediately, if they let non-men compete against them

Prove me wrong

Desegregate sports
Make all leagues unisex

"Separate but equal" is always 💩

#abolishgender #sports #lgbtqia

For the record:

Masculinity as aesthetic harms no one

Masculinity as identity harms everyone

Its fine to look like a man

But, if you are genuinely a provider and protector of others,

you'll identify as a human
not a man

#genderfuck #abolishgender #genderabolitionist #deconstruction #smashthepatriarchy #gender

I'm looking to make friends with people who have downgraded their gender from identity to aesthetic, if this is you plz say hi 🫶

For clarity, im not looking for nonbinary/agender people

Im looking for genderfuck people/gender abolitionists

Gender dissidents, if you will

Like, it truly is fine if gender is part of your look, but if someone were to say "you look very gender" and your response would be "you take that back right now"

Hai 🥰😇✌️🫶🕊️

#genderfuck #genderabolitionist #abolishgender

Me, being sultry:

toxic masculinity is a tautology

#abolishgender #gender #genderabolitionist

Non-men: why are men

Me: bc if they were not, they would no longer be men

Next question

PS make gender an aesthetic, not an identity

#men #gender #genderabolitionist #abolishgender

“Double dysphoria.”

That’s all I could think as I walked out of the post office today after the clerk “ma’am”’d and “merry Christmas”’d me in quick succession—too quick, especially with a long line of customers behind me, to come up with a remotely coherent, incisive yet kind retort.

So I scurried out of the post office, doubly grouchy at this time of year—the “season” when the dominance of xtian hegemony rings as loud and clear as Salvation Army bells; when it’s somehow socially acceptable to assume that everyone celebrates xmas and jesus and bio-families and capitalist excess.

Never mind that “merry” or the equivalently exasperating “happy” Christmas greetings, mouthed routinely in place of “have a good day,” feel so utterly tasteless against the repast of genocide and authoritarianism being served up this year. That should surely be bad enough. (It is!)

But on the more micro level of me—a “they,” a godless Jewish anarchist—it sticks in the craw. Every micro interaction in the course of my day feels like being jabbed by pine needles—each a reminder of 530+ years of the christofascist theft of calendars and rituals, communities and languages, foods and cultures, genders and lifeways. Anything and everything at odds with a landscape of white male Santa Clauses supposedly gifting us the world while we passively slumber—but only if we’re good at fitting into the supremacy of cheerful obedience and conformity.

Usually I’m “merely” enraged during December, wishing the Grinch would change their mind and #AbolishXmas after all. Maybe it’s because I’m in a part of this imperiled world where people find it “polite” (in that shutdown, rote sort of WASPy way) to presume and add 1-of-2 genders to every sentence (“yes, sir” or “thank you, miss”), but this “season” I’m equally eager to #AbolishGender. And it’s hitting me how xtian hegemony at xmas is wrapped up neatly with a binary bow in ho(ho)mophobia and transphobia.

So I’m feeling doubly dysphoric toward the “holidays” that aren’t mine, grumpy about being labeled “xtian” and “female” when I’m neither, doubly filled with wrath at this homogeneously oppressive social order that must be abolished.

(Photo: cheerful stickers seen last autumn in the queerly beautiful space of @roomofonesownbooks 💗🖤)

Können wir nicht diesen ganzen Quatsch mit den Geschlechtern sein lassen und uns einfach darauf konzentrieren, was jemand unten rum hat? #AbolishGender oder so.

#Irland
#Ireland
#Eire
#ESC
#ESC24
#ESC2024
#eurovision
#eurovisionsongcontest

Why #abolishgender?

Gender has historically been used to separate the masculine from feminine in order to oppress the feminine... However... That kind of understanding of Gender is mostly European.

Correct me if I'm wrong but Indigenous people have had much different understandings of gender throughout history and it wasn't until the white man came and colonized the land did that understanding of Gender change.

In my humble opinion we can't abolish gender, it's an integral part of how we define our interactions and present ourselves to the world whether it be masculine, feminine or the lack thereof (where my enbies at?) And abolishing it would be a little impossible?

But we NEED to Decolonize gender.

Any thoughts? Any critiques? I'd love to hear opinions on this take. Abolish Gender or Decolonize Gender... Or maybe even... Both?

#transrights #enby #gender