When your boundaries feel violated, and you want to be gentle about it, try requesting that the person ask consent before engaging with you that way. If applicable, let them know that if they really need this and they request it, the boundary might be negotiable.

Boundaries are imaginary borders, and other people may not understand how to participate with imaginary things the way you want them to - or their imagination may be offline for some cosmic reason.

I like using the question "can we pause for consent?" when someone I am close to wants to grumble about nonsensical things, for example.

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#ConsentConversations
#UnicornPause
#UnicornSelfCare
#UnicornLife
#UnicornHabits
#UnicornCommunity
#UnicornMagic
#Unicorns
#Plural

It really is sad that the world cannot handle this glorious body in the buff, most of the time. Yet.

In the meantime, my newest side quest is to discover the most divinely comfortable clothes & fabrics and make my own clothes - for times like today, when I must appear among mortals.

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#UnicornLife
#UnicornNonsense

If you ever want to eject a toxic human from your life, be sure to replace their presence with someone fun that you think might be fictional - like Bigfoot or your fairy godparent.

This magic spell can bring your head peace when you see them, especially for those humans that you can't quite truly eject from your reality. Go all in with these replacements!

Be sure to pick out a wardrobe, and dress up this person as ridiculously as you can, every time. Make it so outrageous that you smile when you encounter this person who formerly annoyed you, and the more they try to annoy you, the sillier it gets.

Go ahead and indulge in a giggle, see how it feels.
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#UnicornMagic
#UnicornLife

Is someone you don't know giving vibes you don't feel great about, and you're unsure how to conclude the interaction?

Imagine they are an NPC and the purpose of your interaction is to bring them peace in this moment. Imagine the most fun you can have with it, and them follow your heart to sharing peace. ✌️

#UnicornLife
#UnicornPeace

You know that feeling when you cut the tag out of a shirt that's about to become your favorite shirt? That feeling is a body sign. 🚧 This is when you get to adjust your speed to optimally indulge in what's next, based on what information you have in your Now.

Practice this skill with great enthusiasm and joy! Narrate yourself with the voice of your biggest fan, for extra good feels inside of your body!

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PS: if you dont know this feeling, you can always ask an autist to help you have this experience. They will almost always have valuable insight on easy ways to make your body more comfortable. ♾️💜☮️

#UnicornLife
#UnicornEuphoria

You know that feeling when the seam of a sock is just not ok on toes? That discomfort is a stop sign inside of your body. 🛑 Do not do anything else but take care of your body's comfort until the body signals feel pleasant again.

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#UnicornLife

When your imagination builds a heart dream, find 1 person who you can share the heart dream with while the dream feels fragile. 💭

Be very slow and deliberate about who you share this special secret with. 🤫

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#UnicornDreams
#unicorn
#UnicornLife

It was so good to get to see @CoralMallow again after waaay too long. I have missed being able to poke her and get squishes. Vid calls are great but not the same.

Also Holly finally got to meet her! #unicornlife