TRAUMABOND - DOYENNE [OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO] (2026) SW EXCLUSIVE

https://peertube.gravitywell.xyz/w/jRVeWeG9MxZEbnsAvLxu53

TRAUMABOND "DOYENNE" OUT NOW!

https://peertube.gravitywell.xyz/w/qqDcqT8RBZS7mGheJk8eX8

Can the bloggers' reaction be considered victim-blaming?

This is taken from a reaction to an episode of the Russian TV show "Mom at 16" on the U channel. The main character is abused by a guy who breaks her phone. In this particular episode, he apologizes and buys her a new one. The girl has nowhere to go (her father has practically disowned her, and her mother is telling her to forgive him). Is the bloggers' reaction victim-blaming?
#DomesticViolence #TraumaBond #EconomicAbuse #ПочемуОнаНеУшла

FEVER VISIONS // ZERO BARS (TO) // TRAUMA BOND

Turbo Haüs, Saturday, January 10 at 08:00 PM EST

https://montreal.askapunk.net/event/fever-visions-zero-bars-to-trauma-bond

❓ Did you know

💢 Abuse creates a trauma bond

😇 Sometimes they're nice
😈 Sometimes they're not

♻️ It's "intermittent reinforcement"
🧠 It's literally addictive to your brain

🙏 Leaving = getting clean

cueerd – we break patterns 🌈

https://open.spotify.com/track/7mdyZRwlT89IGk0x4cdD8v?si=Pq0miw93SZSoj8o1p0SXkA

#trauma #traumaBond #traumaHealing #abuse #emotionalAbuse #narcissisticAbuse #narcissism

The most potent weapon you have against a #narcissist is #selfRegulation.

Narcissists use #emotions to manipulate you. And a lifetime of doing this made them incredibly adept at this. They will analyse you and figure out which emotional strings they need to pull to play you like an instrument. You'll increasingly loose yourself in increasingly desperate attempts to get on their good side. To get back that person they were in the beginning. Neurologically speaking it's literally an addiction (look up #traumaBond if you don't believe me).

Good self-regulation practices will allow you to become immune to their manipulation. For this you need to become centered in yourself. Which means: you need to face your own #trauma.

However if you manage to do that, then you'll become stronger than you could have ever imagined. Your narc gives you nightmares and makes you feel powerless? You'll begin to see them as a toddler throwing a fit (which is surprisingly accurate, psychologically speaking).

#narcissism #healing

Breaking the #traumaBond that binds you to your abuser is hard work. You literally go through the stages of grief, as part of breaking it requires you to let go of the shared delusion that your abuser is a "good person".

This means that you lose the person you thought they were. All while potentially still interacting with them. All while potentially still being subjected to their manipulations.

This is why people recommend going no contact. Healing from abuse requires you to re-center yourself in your reality, in your perception. And that results in your abuser having less control. Spoiler: they don't want that.

#abuse #emotionalAbuse #narcissisticAbuse #neurodivergent #autistic #actuallyAutistic #actuallyADHD #actuallyAuDHD

🇺🇦 #NowPlaying on #KEXP's #SeekAndDestroy

Trauma Bond:
🎵 Chewing Fat

#TraumaBond

https://traumabond1.bandcamp.com/track/chewing-fat

https://open.spotify.com/track/1599Eamm3KS8FQDwzqHnGQ