RE: https://cultofshiv.wtf/@EmandEmz/115904594404397807

Hey folks

We're so very limited in our reach and ability to help, but we know we're mutuals with a few larger account folks, as well as folks who are active on more platforms than us, so if there's anything at all you can do to signal boost this for our friend Emma and her family, we'll be more grateful than we can put into words  

We first met Emma back on Twitter in the pre-Musk takeover days.

She has not only been actively supporting and caring for her kids, above and beyond her own health and wellbeing, but she's ensured that her daughter Emily -- who came out as trans young -- never had to go through the wrong puberty, and she's fought as hard as possible to fight not just for Emily's rights, but for those of all trans+ youth and adults  

If you cannot afford to donate, she'll absolutely understand. All we'd ask is that you give this post a boost, quote boost her post like us, or post this elsewhere, with as many relevant hashtags as you can think of 🫶

#trans #transgender #TransKidsDeserveToThrive #TransYouthDeserveToGrowUp #ProtectTransYouth #ProtectTransKids #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #fundraiser #fundraising #solidarity #community #CommunitySupport #BoostsWelcome #CapitalismSucks #LateStageCapitalismSucks #fediverse

Hey folks  

As you're almost-certainly already aware, access to GAHT is increasingly being restricted, being outright banned, or otherwise unavailableb to many trans+ people under 18 in many places across the world 😔

For example, the UK had already banned new prescriptions of GnRH agonists (a type of puberty blocker) for any trans+ person under 18, and is now genuinely considering banning all private GAHT prescriptions too 🤬

GAHT is literally lifesaving medication for many trans+ people 

Without it, many trans+ people under 18 will struggle even more with mental health, and many will not make it to adulthood 😭

If you are a trans+ person under 18, or are a supportive family member or friend of someone who is, please start to make contingency plans now for the worst-case scenarios 🥺

We highly recommend bookmarking the below website and making copies of all relevant info and links in case it gets taken down:

  • HRT4All
    • Before the site will let you in, it'll ask you to answer a quiz, after which it'll create a cookie called "quiz_passed" with a value of "true".
    • The website seems to have intermittent issues with the quiz, so if you encounter any issues, delete all cookies for the website and reload.
    • If all else fails, you can use an extension called Cookiebro in Firefox or Edge to import a "quiz_passed" cookie from a JSON. (Contents for Firefox cookie; contents for Edge cookie.)

If you're 18+ or soon will be, please also do the same for these:

Please note that there is now at least one homebrewer who offers estradiol sprays.

We all need to prepare now, before it's too late 🥺😞

Enough lives have already been lost. We can't save everyone, but we need to try to save as many as we can ✊

Boosts very much appreciated  

Edit 2025-08-19:

  • Added some info to help anyone struggling to log in to HRT4All.
  • Added info on additional resources.

#trans #transgender #TransKidsDeserveToGrowUp #TransKidsDeserveToThrive #SupportTransKids #TransYouthAreLoved #FuckTransphobia #FuckBigotry #FuckTheUK #TransLiberation #TransLiberationNow #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #UnitedWeStandDividedWeFall #FirstTheyCame #GenderDysphoria #GenderIncongruence #GenderAffirmingCare #GAHT #HRT #TransGenocide #PSA #PleaseBoost #TransRights #TransRightsAreHumanRights

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Content warning: Updated helpful tips for supportive parents, guardians, family members, friends of trans kids in the UK, as well as trans-supportive medical professionals and organisations, in light of the extension of the ban on new prescriptions of puberty blockers and closing the NI loophole (boosts welcome :BoostsOKPrideSymbol:) (updated re: further extension) (updated again re: indefinite ban)

The Cult of Shiv
A couple of gifts arrived for Emily this morning, which I’ve wrapped and put away. Sat ugly crying at the beautiful messages of love and solidarity for her 🥺. Thank you for showing my girl such love I am overwhelmed. #trans #transgirl #transkidsdeservetothrive #daughtergoals https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2Z64NF8HO6XN3?ref_=list_d_wl_ys_list_1
Check out my list on Amazon

It’s been two years of Emily’s journey with TRUK and our personal lives followed by the TRUK film crew and it’s now a short film 🤩. It’s has been an absolute honour to give our time to this fantastic project and to be followed by a crew of LGBTQ people and massive allies we knew we were in safe hands. They have done an exceptional job of telling this story, it’s honest, beautiful and joyful. We are going to be away from next week and will be helping to promote the film for a couple of weeks. A huge thank you to my oldest two kids for holding things down at home while we do this, I couldn’t do this without their help. I’ve now got to put ALOT in place to manage my mental health to be able to have the energy and strength to do this. There are a lot of unknowns I’m going to have to navigate and it’s a lot of advocacy for us both. I also have Emily’s safety and education to manage so I need to ensure I have the resources for that. If any of you can help towards expenses for this it would be a massive help as with all trans advocacy it’s self funded https://www.paypal.me/Emmsywillo
I truly believe in this project it is a beautiful, powerful and joyful film if I didn’t believe it can change things I wouldn’t put us through all of this. I believe this film is a much needed breath of fresh air and I can’t wait for you all to see it.
There are still tickets for this viewing if you are in the London area https://genesiscinema.co.uk/event/96477#:~:text=A%20special%20gala%20screening%20of,grassroots%2C%20proudly%20trans%20football%20club
#trukunitedfilm #trukunited #docsociety #bfinetwork #transfootball #transsport #filmfestival #lgbtqfilm #transfilm #transonscreen #shortfilm #transrepresentation #transvisibility #transdayofvisibility #tdov #whatsonlondon #londoncinema #cinemainlondon #genesiscinema #screeningevent #shortfilmshowcase #affirmtranskids #transkidsdeservetoplaysports #transkidsdeservetothrive
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After first banning new prescriptions of GnRH agonists (one category of puberty blockers) to trans kids, the bigots are now gunning to prevent estradiol and testosterone being given to trans kids   

https://archive.is/6rwed

Rest assured that the bigots won't stop here. They'll be coming after gay marriage, contraception, abortion rights, women's rights, migrant rights, POC, anti-dicrimination laws, adult trans rights and healthcare, and anything else that they object to.

They don't just want a return to the 1950s: they want us to go back to the 1930s.

This is not a drill or alarmism, people. Fascism is back and it's coming for all of us.

We for one will not be sitting idle whilst this happens ✊

Boosts are welcome  Please share this far and wide, and start prepping and planning for the worst.

#TransKidsDeserveBetter #TransKidsDeserveToGrowUp #TransKidsDeserveToThrive #TransYouthAreLoved #transphobia #transmisia #bigotry #FuckYouWesStreeting #FuckTheUK #DeathBeforeDetransition #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #WeAreStrongerTogether #FirstTheyCame #BoostsWelcome

Emily’s response to being shortlisted ❤️👌🏼⚽️🏳️‍⚧️
I am so proud to be shortlisted for this years @football_v_homophobia @fvhscot hero award and I would like to thank every single person that has nominated me. To quote Bill Shankly, some people believe football is a matter of life and death, I am very disappointed with that attitude. I can assure you it is much, much more important than that.
For me personally football is life, it’s my sanctuary and love. It gave me hope and much needed positivity when I had been bullied out of school and I felt truly isolated and alone, a much needed light in the darkness. From watching @liverpoolfc play and getting to become a proud member of @kop_outs and represent them and my community at events to playing for @trukunitedfc and representing my community from the age of 14 and getting to show other trans kids like myself that we do belong in football, in sports and in society. These opportunities have paved the way to play in a girls football team and play in the women’s football league, again proving that trans kids can and should play. So for me to be shortlisted for this award as a trans kid is huge and I hope it proves to other trans kids that we belong and that trans kids will never walk alone #lgbtq #lgbtcommunity #lgbtqpride #lgbteens #trans #transgirl #transgender #transkidsmatter #transkidsbelong #transkidsdeservetoplaysports #transkidsdeservetothrive #football #footballvhomophobia #footballvtransphobia #footballforall #nofootballwithoutthet

Hey folks

Needed to get this vent out of our system too, as it's been really bugging us lately.

Right now, the vast majority of the medical community, even those who consider themselves trans-supportive, are incredibly gatekeeping when it comes to giving trans youth any form of care, even puberty blockers like GnRH agonists.

In an ideal world, the following would happen:

  • A trans kid says they're trans.
  • If they've started or will soon start puberty, the trans kid goes to their GP or doctor with a parent or guardian.
  • The GP or doctor offers the following options to the trans kid:
    • A puberty blocker (GnRH agonist or antagonist).
    • Monotherapy GAHT (i.e., maintaining a high enough estradiol or testosterone level to block gonadal hormone production).
    • A lower level of GAHT alongside a puberty blocker.

In the real-world, this sadly isn't the case. At the very best, trans kids:

  • Won't be offered a puberty blocker unless they've at least reached stage 2 on the Tanner scale!
  • Won't be offered HRT until 14 at the very, very earliest!

In practice, it's even worse than this in many places now. Even in many countries that consider themselves to be "progressive" on trans healthcare, trans youth will need to:

  • Have been on a puberty blocker for 6-12 months before GAHT will be considered.
  • Be at least 16 before GAHT will be offered.

In the worst places, there's no healthcare for trans youth whatsoever. In the UK, there's currently a permanent ban on new prescriptions of puberty blockers to any trans person under the age of 18. There are workarounds in place by private companies for this, but they're out of the price range for most people. Getting GAHT before the age of 18 will also require going private.

This forms the basis of the "wait and see" approach, which is conversion therapy by another name. Its nefarious aim is to reduce the number of people transitioning and to reduce the number of trans people overall, as many trans kids will not reach adulthood by being actively denied the right to transition medically.

The worst thing about this isn't the transphobia and transmisia from outside the trans community, but from within it  

We've seen people agree with the age gatekeeping and the need for medical diagnoses of being trans (ICD-11 - gender incongruence of childhood or gender incongruence of adolescence or adulthood), as if they don't trust trans kids to know that they're trans.

If we're going to use that logic, then clearly no-one should be allowed to go through puberty until they're legally an adult, as clearly all kids can't be trusted, right? Oh, and we should distrust all kids about sexuality too and prevent relationships of any kind until they're 18, yes?

The false logic quickly falls apart there. It's not based on not trusting kids: it's based on not trusting trans kids. It's the same nonsense that leads people to assume that all kids are heterosexual by default ("heteronormativity") and to distrust that anyone under 18 could recognise this about themselves.

The only reason it took us so long to realise that we were trans and bi wasn't because we weren't both of these things all along, but due to external pressures (Section 28; transphobia and homophobia) that made us suppress and repress these feelings. If we had felt able to be ourselves, we'd have realised we weren't a boy in our early teens, and that we were bi not much later.

In the UK, estrogenic puberty typically starts anywhere from age 8 to 13 and androgenic puberty from 9 to 14. There's simply no reasonable argument for delaying puberty in trans kids until they're 16 or even older. The "appropriate" age to start GAHT is whenever they've met the minimum puberty start age (8 or 9), when their peers are starting, and when they feel ready to start.

So yeah, we fully support trans youth starting GAHT at 11-12 or possibly even earlier in some cases.

Puberty blockers are meant to be a short-term stop-gap only to delay puberty. Once puberty has started, they can be used alongside GAHT in order to provide an age-appropriate ramp up, but in most cases it would simply be safer and cheaper to go with GAHT monotherapy. With monotherapy, trans kids get the added emotional, physical, and psychological benefits that come with a slightly-higher sex hormone level. (Just think how shitty it feels to have a low estradiol or testosterone level.)

Anyways, that's enough venting for now. We'll probably come back to correct typos, make minor amendments, or add further thoughts later. Right now though, we need to head up to bed.

#trans #transgender #transition #PubertyBlockers #TransYouthAreLoved #TransKidsAreLoved #TransKidsDeserveBetter #TransYouthDeserveBetter #TransKidsDeserveToThrive #TransYouthDeserveToThrive #TransKidsDeserveToGrowUp #TransYouthDeserveToGrowUp #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #queer #GAHT #HRT #TransRights #TransRightsAreHumanRights #TransLiberation #TransLiberationNow #InformedConsent #GillickCompetence

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We don't know who need to hear this, but if you've been waiting for a sign, a push, or someone's permission to transition, this is it 

You only get one shot at life, so choose to be who you really are, rather than whom others say you are or whom they want you to be  

Transitioning isn't easy, and it won't make your struggles just go away, but it will make those struggles worth striving to overcome  

If you can't do so now due to any reasons, please note that it's never too late to start transitioning, and that there's a whole community of people who will support you 🩷

No matter what you think or anyone else tells you, you are trans enough, and you deserve happiness as yourself ✊  

We believe in you, even if you don't yet believe in yourself  

#trans #transgender #TransRightsAreHumanRights #ProtectTransKids #TransKidsDeserveToThrive #TransKidsDeserveToGrowUp #TransYouthAreLoved #TransKidsDeserveBetter #DesegregateTransHealthcare #queer #TransLiberation #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #YesYouAreTransEnough

For example, if someone in Canada or the UK has a spare bedroom and is willing to host a person (e.g. a university student who’s going to lose their place in January due to the Muslim ban) … how on are they going to find someone?

#mutualaid #crowdsourcing #uspol #muslimban #transkidsdeservetothrive

Maybe a better question is, for those of us outside the US who are able to offer direct assistance in a small, targeted, personal way … how can we do so?

#mutualaid #crowdsourcing #uspol #muslimban #transkidsdeservetothrive