SleepyCatten@tillybridges We realise how incredibly lucky we were (and are) with our cis wife compared to many other couples 
She's bi; she has always wanted us to be the real us, and had been trying for years to help with this; and she's neurospicy AF, like us 
To say she's been supportive is an understatement. She's helped every step of the way and constantly affirmed us 
She didn't even bat an eyelid when we realised we were plural 
We love her so much 
Is trans 4 cis (T4C) a thing? We feel like it should be a thing.