“‘It’s not that bad.’ ‘Everyone feels this way.’ ‘I’m lucky to have a job.’
These are the lies we whisper to survive toxic workplaces. But really, they’re just quiet self-sabotage. Ready to face the truth? 👇” Read the full blog.

#ToxicWorkCulture #EmotionalIntelligence #WorkplaceWellness #LeadershipTruths #BreakTheCycle #LeadBoldly #CariBordenSaidIt

http://leadboldly1.blog/2025/09/09/the-lies-we-whisper-to-survive-at-work-and-why-theyre-slowly-breaking-us/

The Lies We Whisper to Survive at Work (and Why They’re Slowly Breaking Us)

Written By Cari Borden We don’t always need our bosses to lie to us, sometimes we do it all by ourselves. Quiet little whispers that tell us everything is “fine.” That this level of stress is “norm…

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From office desks to parliaments, one question echoes: “Who hired these idiots?”
Why incompetence thrives, why we tolerate it, and why silence is their biggest shield.

Full read: https://mohameddosou.blogspot.com/2025/08/who-hired-theseidiots.html

#Workplace #Politics #IncompetentLeadership #ToxicWorkCulture #Corruption

Are you really “difficult”…
or are you just trying to thrive in toxic soil?

🌱 If you’ve been labeled hard to work with for asking better questions, setting boundaries, or challenging dysfunction, this one’s for you.

Read the blog: “Being Easy to Work With: Or Are You Just in the Wrong Room
#EmotionalIntelligence #WorkplaceWellness #LeadershipDevelopment #ToxicWorkCulture #CollaborationMatters #SelfAwareness #GrowthMindset #CareerAlignment #EQAtWork #FindYourEcosystem

http://leadboldly1.blog/2025/07/24/being-easy-to-work-with-or-are-you-just-in-the-wrong-room/

Being Easy to Work With: Or Are You Just in the Wrong Room?

Written By Cari Borden Let’s be honest.Somewhere along the way, “easy to work with” became synonymous with “never push back,” “never challenge,” and “always agreeable.” But that’s not what being co…

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“Not my fault.”
That line doesn’t sound better just because it’s coming from the corner office.
Victim mentality isn’t just an employee issue—it’s a leadership liability.
Read the blog and let’s talk about what really happens when blame becomes a leadership strategy.
#leadership #accountability #victimmentality #toxicworkculture #blamegame #coachup #growthmindset #psychologicalsafety #workplacetruths

http://leadboldly1.blog/2025/07/21/when-the-victim-mentality-sits-in-the-bosss-chair/

When the Victim Mentality Sits in the Boss’s Chair

Because it’s not just your teammate playing helpless. Written By Cari Borden We love a good coaching success story, the disengaged rep who turned it around, the hothead who learned to pause, the ne…

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In Part 2 of my Employee Entrapment series, I break down the flattering trap that slowly eats away at your confidence, autonomy, and peace of mind.
📉 When praise becomes pressure
🧠 When flattery erodes self-worth
🚩 When ‘investment’ means control
This one’s for anyone who's ever questioned if they’re allowed to grow.
🔗 Read the blog
#ToxicWorkCulture #KnowYourWorth #PsychologicalSafety #CareerFreedom #GuiltTripDetected #EmployeeEntrapment #LeadershipAwareness

http://leadboldly1.blog/2025/06/18/weve-invested-so-much-in-you-and-other-guilt-trips-that-arent-in-your-job-description/

We’ve Invested So Much in You… and Other Guilt Trips That Aren’t in Your Job Description

Employee Entrapment Pt. 2, When Loyalty Becomes Leverage Written By Cari Borden When Praise Feels Like a Prison Sentence “It starts off flattering. You’re the MVP. The rising star. The one they ‘to…

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HR Theater: When “Speak Up” Is Just a Script

The illusion of safety in a system built to protect itself. You followed protocol.Reported the issue.Trusted the process.And… nothing happened.Or worse, you were punished for it. Welcome to HR Thea…

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If you’re constantly exhausted, second-guessing yourself, and calling it “loyalty” — it might be time for a reality check.
You can fight for better… or flight toward freedom.
Either way, your mental health deserves to be non-negotiable.
👉 Read the blog. Get the strategy. Reclaim your power.
#MentalHealthAtWork
#CorporateBurnout
#ToxicWorkCulture
#LeadershipTruths
#KnowYourWorth

http://leadboldly1.blog/2025/05/31/when-loyalty-becomes-self-destruction-are-you-sacrificing-your-mental-health-for-a-company-that-doesnt-deserve-you/

When Loyalty Becomes Self-Destruction: Are You Sacrificing Your Mental Health for a Company That Doesn’t Deserve You?

Written by Cari Borden Let’s get real. If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve started to feel it, the fatigue that doesn’t go away after a weekend, the silent resentment in back-to-back meeting…

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Ever feel like someone’s documenting your downfall instead of your development?
In Part 2 of The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of Documenting, we expose the dark side of documentation—when notes become narratives, and leaders use paper trails as power plays.

✍️ If you’ve ever been blindsided by “We’ve been documenting this…” you need to read this.
#ToxicWorkCulture #LeadershipFails #WeaponizedDocumentation
#LeadershipDevelopment #PsychologicalSafety

http://leadboldly1.blog/2025/05/30/when-the-pen-becomes-a-sword-the-dark-side-of-documentation/

When the Pen Becomes a Sword: The Dark Side of Documentation

Written By Cari Borden 😬 The Flip Side of the File You’ve probably felt it.The sudden shift in tone. The surprise email recap that reads more like a warning than a follow-up.The weird feeling that …

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Japanese Salaryman Shares His 18-Hour Day Schedule, Internet Is Stunned- WATCH Viral Video Of Workplace Toxicity

A Japanese man’s video goes viral.Photo : iStockIf you think that settling abroad in a ‘pretty country’ will change your life and eliminate your stress- you might want to take a look at this Japanese worker’s ‘POV’- which seemingly left the internet horrified for all the obvious reasons. If this poor man is to be believed- ‘overworking’ isn't just limited to India! The man- allegedly a ‘salaryman at a black company’ in Japan- gave a glimpse of his ‘18-hour day’ schedule on social media. For those wondering, ‘black companies’ in Japan are reportedly referred to organisations where the ‘treatment’ of

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