Ok, this is a deep one. He speaks specifically about abusive governments and how the damage they do lasts generations. All the trigger warnings.
#ToxicFamilies
#ToxicGovernments
#LicensedTherapist
#PatrickTeahan
Toxic Fathers & The Daughters They Leave Behind
https://youtube.com/watch?v=vQvZ7BfnS30
Let go of expecting, hoping even for repair as repair comes from accountability. The only way to survive their game it is not to play at all
The #1 Narcissistic Tell: Lack of Accountability
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kS43xqxvdds
#NPD #narcissisticAbuse #narcissism #ToxicFamilies #ClusterBFamily #trauma #TraumaReccovery #TraumaSurvivor
The scapegoat child is the only honest one - and they will make them suffer for it
#ClusterB #ToxicFamilies #scapegoat #scapegoatSurvivor #InvisibleChild #trauma #NPD #ChildhoodTrauma #ClusterBFamily
A parent calls the child "difficult child”, “a problem child”, they would never call themselves “difficult parent”, or "problem parent"
#ToxicFamilies #ToxicParenting #ToxicSiblings #CusterB #ClusterbFamily
@RationalizedInsanity I'm the opposite in that I was rarely allowed to do anything for myself. I have been infantilised all my life. Even now as a 40+ woman, I am still being told I am too weak to live alone and need a live-in guardian. You would think I was 12.
I would love more than anything to be able to do things by myself without that everlasting dread. I'm taking small steps, but it's not easy.
We should not, apparently, have choices about the environment we were born into, even after we are no longer dependent on our parents; and that lack of agency, autonomy, and healthy development they inflicted should not then lead us to trust untrustworthy people. It's our fault if we let people abuse us, unless they're FAMILY and it's our fault if we *don't.*
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#toxicfamilies #enablingabuse #enablers #socialabuse #socialnorms #boomers
I've come to the conclusion that every family member that ever claims to care about you is completely full of shit. Everyone just fulfills their selfish desires and the sooner you cut them off, the sooner you cut off what is similar to a tumor
Sometimes, as a parent, breaking the cycle of familial emotional abuse takes conscious effort…
Sending love to those who are grieving lost loved ones this #HolidaySeason, whether thru #estrangement or passing. This season can be difficult. Find ppl that will hold u tight & give u the care u need & deserve. You are strong & beautiful, even in your #grief.
#FamilyEstrangement #lostLovedOnes #Estranged #EstrangedAdultChildren #lgbtCommunity #LGBTChristmas #LGBTHoliday #EstrangedHolidays #ChristmasGrief #HolidayGrief #ToxicFamily #ToxicFamilies #ToxicFamiliesAndHolidays #EstrangedLGBT
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