Another article that I've had sitting, waiting, for some time.

Finding my own space
This is a story, essentially, about finding your own identity as a trans person, and how our marriages can complicate that journey. It's also a story about widowhood, and the very similar struggle for identity that many of us experience. I hope people can relate.
https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/finding-my-own-space-7bc76a9c031f
#TattieWrites #trans #SelfLove #relationships #identity #bereavement #widowhood

Finding my own space - Tattie - Medium

In November 2023, the very foundation of my world was shattered. Exactly one month after our thirteenth wedding anniversary, my wife died, a tragedy so sudden that I never got the chance to even say…

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Ok, this article's been on the back burner for a very long time. I've been a little worried to publish because it does tear down a widely-accepted trans belief, but I think it's important to talk about.

The right hormones
Is it accurate to talk about brains being "designed to run on" either estrogen or testosterone? Can this explain what we feel as trans people? Or are there problems in that theory? Your fave tater shares their thoughts...
https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/the-right-hormones-608b55e09252
#TattieWrites #trans #transgender #hrt #hormones #MentalHealth #gender

The Right Hormones - Tattie - Medium

Are brains meant to run on either estrogen or testosterone, and does this explain the transgender experience? This author is not so sure.

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I've published again, finally!

This brief, brief life
A story about the last ten and a half months, from losing my wife in November to getting FHS in September.
https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/this-brief-brief-life-8a12ffd8d0e2
#TattieWrites #bereavement #widowhood #transgender #FFS #loss

This brief, brief life - Tattie - Medium

Content warning: this article discusses death and bereavement, medical topics, and, briefly, suicidal thoughts. September 2024: I'm lying in bed, stitches finally out, looking forwards to being able…

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After a very understandable hiatus, I finally bring you a story of letting go of unachievable and self-destructive dreams, and embracing the reality of #transition. I hope it resonates with some of you!

https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/finding-the-will-to-transition-f26b33309da1

#transgender #BodyImage #SelfHate #SelfLove #dysphoria #TattieWrites

Finding the will to transition - Tattie - Medium

Two and a half decades ago, a teenaged me lies in bed, praying to a god they’re rapidly losing faith in to wake up as a girl the next morning. Did I wonder whether I could be transgender? Yes, I did…

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I've written an article on the relationship between grief and hope, and how each effect change. Dedicated to my darling Cassie-cat. πŸ₯²  
https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/grief-and-hope-and-how-we-change-9d0a13c40b55

#TattieWrites #grief #hope #change #transformation #transgender #LifeChanges

Hooray, I've finally reached a point where life has stopped exploding at me and I'm ready to publish this!

https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/the-double-shelled-egg-981ebadc41ee

What happens when your egg cracks, but you can't reconcile it with society's prejudices? A tale of two decades of denial, fear, coping mechanisms, and eventual acceptance.

#TattieWrites #transgender #crossdressing #TGFiction #denial #transphobia

Writing time! But it's not the one that's been sitting with me for weeks, but rather a quickie that I wrote mid-flight.

Something that I've talked about a couple of times already on Fedi: how transitioning led to a newfound fear of flying. With bonus reminiscences, and mild terror.

And yes, I really did write a large chunk of this in real time, which was a fun challenge.

https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/fear-of-flying-344099001120

#TattieWrites #flying #fear #transgender

I've been writing again! This is a story I've been wanting to tell for ages, despite it involving the darkest thoughts and moments of my life. It's about the time I time-traveled in order to save my life.

(Or that's one way of looking at it, at least.)

Huge bold font blinking content warnings for suicidal ideation on this one!

https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/saving-myself-252d2cac327a

#TattieWrites #transgender #trans #suicidalIdeation #trauma #hope

I've been writing again! Huge warnings on this one-- it's all about my religious beliefs and loss thereof, and coping with that.

I feel nervous sharing this article because it's very personal, I've never fully talked about it before, and I know it the subject is divisive to say the least, but I hope it might resonate with somebody out there!

https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/on-a-god-lost-to-me-b1e6fe85d248

#TattieWrites #Christianity #atheism #queer #grief #nonbinary

It's done! My latest article started as an old Reddit meme, took a long journey through various takes on gender dysphoria, and ended up on a shout of indignation.

I hope I've done the topic justice, and I hope you enjoy reading it. 😊

https://medium.com/@tattie_potate/what-is-gender-dysphoria-anyway-401e7b63ed89

#TattieWrites #transgender #genderDysphoria #trauma #cptsd