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Zsolt ZsembaLooking Stupid Is the Price of Admission
Looking Stupid Is the Price of Admission
Let’s get something straight.
You are not stuck because you lack talent. You are not stuck because you lack opportunity. You are stuck because you are allergic to looking stupid. You want freedom, confidence, better work, better relationships, better stories. You also want to look composed while getting there. That is the problem. Life does not hand out rewards to people who look cool while trying. It rewards the people who are willing to look ridiculous first. Think about how much energy you spend avoiding embarrassment.
You do not speak up because what if it sounds dumb.
You do not start because what if you are bad at it.
You do not try because someone might notice you trying.
Trying is The Real Crime?
You would rather fail quietly in your head than risk being seen failing in public. So you wait until you are ready. Polished. Confident. Perfect.
Here is the bad news. Ready is a myth. Nobody feels ready. They just move anyway.
Every person you think is confident has already survived a long phase of being awkward, wrong, clumsy, and slightly embarrassing. You just met them after they stopped caring. The funniest part is this. The moment you do the thing you are afraid of, the world barely reacts. Nobody gasps. Nobody points. Nobody keeps score.
They scroll. They forget. They move on.
You are the only one replaying the moment at three in the morning like it was a public execution. Looking stupid feels dangerous because your ego treats it like death. In reality, it is a paper cut. It stings, then it disappears.
Avoiding Embarrassment Costs You More Than Embarrassment Ever Could.
It costs you momentum.
It costs you experience.
It costs you stories.
It costs you the version of yourself that might have existed if you stopped waiting to look impressive. Here is the truth nobody likes to say out loud. Playing it safe is how you slowly embarrass yourself over decades instead of minutes.
You stay in situations you outgrow.
You avoid chances you want.
You explain your life instead of living it.
All because you did not want to look silly for five minutes.
Freedom does not arrive when you stop caring what people think. It arrives when you realize they are not thinking about you at all.
So do the thing badly. Say the thing imperfectly. Start before you feel confident. Confidence is not the entry requirement. It is the side effect.
You can look stupid for a moment, or you can stay trapped forever trying to look smart.
Pick your discomfort.
If you want, the next one can aim straight at people who call themselves realists when they are really just scared.
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