Happy fifth birthday to this essay. It hit so unbelievably close to home that I don’t think a week has gone by in the intervening years that I haven’t thought about it.
I am grateful to the author for sharing her story and for helping me find the courage to stop passing.
Happy Pride from your friendly neighbourhood bisexual demon!
Today #selfcare looked like taking disappointing news with grace, lunch with a friend, and setting my posts to public in advance of me queering out the next thirty days of #Evstober.
What did it look like for you?
#TakeYourMeds #FakingItTilMakingIt #DrinkMoreWater #StillBisexual #Eat #Sleep #Play
@endali Let’s be honest, the surest sign that you are bisexual is that you’re having these doubts about yourself.
All joking aside, it’s OK. I’ve been with my straight, cis female partner for 20 years this year, and I only figured out I was bisexual five years ago. I’ve had all manner of doubts about my own sexuality, beginning with “why am I even thinking about this in the first place?”
The truth is—while we can never truly no the future—I am in a happy monogamous marriage; Lord willing, I will never have another sexual partner, which means I will go through my whole life never being with someone who is t a woman. Nevertheless, I am #StillBisexual. And so are you.
Understanding my own sexuality has made me a better partner. It has made my sex life better even though that sex life continues to be with a single person. And it has made me a better person, as I have come to understand my queerness not just as a sexual orientation, but as a lens through which to view the world.
I’m sorry you’re having these doubts and feelings about yourself. The only thing I can say with certainty is that you are enough. You are good enough; you are bi enough. Nobody gets to define your sexuality but you—not the people around you, not people online, not your partner, not your sexual history, and not even your sexual future.
#Introduction Time
I’m Steve (not my real name). I’m a bisexual cisgender man happily, faithfully, monogamously married to a straight cisgender woman. We’ve been together for more than 20 years, but I’m #StillBisexual.
I am out and proud, but I wasn’t when I started a Twitter account under this name. Even though I am no longer hiding who I am IRL, I find a certain freedom in anonymity here, so I’m hanging onto it.
I have absolutely no patience for transphobia, biphobia, or any other garbage like it. Hopefully that won’t be an issue like it was on the bird site, but if it comes into view, it’s blocked and reported without a second thought.
If you were following me on Twitter, say hi! I hope to find community here like I did there.
As a married #bisexual, I chose a person, not a gender, to "settle". In the same way that others don't lose their sexuality by marrying.
I tweeted this in August 2015, please let this not be controversial and just accepted in 2023! #stillbisexual #lgbtq #lgbtqia
(Shared from the dying bird social)
Seeking Judges: Do you love #books & #reading? Do you want your opinions to matter? Need judges for our 11th #BisexualBookAwards. Seeking fast #readers who love to discuss books with their peers. biwriters.org #BisexualBooks #BiTwitter #StillBisexual #writers #BiVisibility
Shit like this is why I'm #stillbisexual because I've been tracking similar numbers in study after study from English-speaking countries. They're remarkably consistent in the U.S., U.K., Canada, Australia, and now N.Z..
And people are surprisingly reluctant to admit that the fetishization of bi partners as kinky and DTF has a dark side.
Glacies delenda est
Evan Slash Reed Peterson
Steve Rogers 
London Bisexuals Meetup Group
CBrachyrhynchos
🦊🦄 Shika 
