Why Women Orgasm More Alone Than With a Partner
https://sh.itjust.works/post/62174872
Why Women Orgasm More Alone Than With a Partner - sh.itjust.works
Key points:: The largest study of women’s orgasms to date collected data from
27,931 women. Nearly half of the sample (47%) reported reaching orgasm more
frequently when alone vs. when with a partner. The most common reasons for
orgasming alone or with a partner related to relational factors, not anatomy.
Partnered orgasms, but not solo orgasms, were associated with overall sexual
satisfaction.
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Should we be concerned about cross contamination issues?
https://lemmy.world/post/47121464
Should we be concerned about cross contamination issues? - Lemmy.World
We do lots of spouse swapping. Everyone is always nervous about how to start. So
we came up with a way to start that allows everyone to get comfortable. The
wives are both bent over the edge of a bed. Their husbands start fucking them
dogging style. The wives both shove their hands down to massage their clits. And
the husband massage, without probing, their assholes. In less than 10 minutes
both wives cum. The husbands make sure that they don’t. Then to begin the wife
swap, I change positions with the other husband. The wives stay in the same
position. Now the other guy and myself are shoving our cocks into the other
wife. We do this without cleaning off our cocks which are covered in the pussy
juices of our own wives. Is there a health concern of switching from one pussy
to another without doing a clean up job of your cock?
If you're "too big for condoms", you're too big for vaginas.
https://lemmy.world/post/47117138
If you're "too big for condoms", you're too big for vaginas. - Lemmy.World
Condoms are designed to adapt to the vast majority of penis sizes, and there are
specific sizes that are meant to fit the bigger ones. If you don’t fit into
those, you will likely have a lot of trouble fitting into a vagina in the first
place. Condoms might feel tighter on you if you’re bigger, but the vast majority
of the time they should work as intended. Don’t use your size as an excuse to
not use protection. There are condoms made for you that you can get if you put
the effort in.
Best initial insertion position is Cowgirl
https://lemmy.world/post/47082628
Best initial insertion position is Cowgirl - Lemmy.World
No matter how well lubricated the vagina is, that initially insertion should be
slow. If she sits on your penis she has total control of easing it into her.
When she has you fully inserted with a good pace of in and out, you are ready to
go
Put a towel down under whenever a vagina will be.
https://lemmy.world/post/47068948
Put a towel down under whenever a vagina will be. - Lemmy.World
Anyone who has any experience with one knows: Vaginas have liquid coming out of
them. This is especially true if the owner of a vagina is having sex. Depending
on the person, there will at least be some of the liquid coming out of the
vagina at some point in the process. Some kind of absorbent padding will almost
always be helpful in preventing stains. This is especially important if you
think there will be some ejaculation, squirting, peeing, or period blood coming
out at any point. I made this mistake a long time ago when I fingered a woman on
her period and got so much blood everywhere when she squirted that it soaked
through the sheets and into the mattress, which required bleach to soak into it
overnight. Put something down to absorb it even if you don’t think anything will
come out. Something might when you least expect it, so be ready for the flood.
If it's not for religious purposes or because of a specific medical issue, there's no real reason to circumcise your baby.
https://lemmy.world/post/47060112
If it's not for religious purposes or because of a specific medical issue, there's no real reason to circumcise your baby. - Lemmy.World
Studies are conflicted on whether it reduces risk of diseases, but what’s
definitely true is that removing the foreskin removes most of the nerves
associated with pleasure for the penis. Of course it doesn’t take away all
sexual pleasure, but people who get circumcisions later in life report that
their sexual pleasure from sex and masturbation is greatly reduced from before
the circumcision. This likely also applies to babies, although there’s no
conclusive evidence to support that since people who were circumcised at birth
report “normal” amounts of sexual pleasure, though it’s unknown if they and
uncircumcised people have the same “normal”. The reason circumcision became
popular in the Western world outside of Jewish and Muslim culture is because of
John Harvey Kellogg, the inventor of Corn Flakes, founder of the Kellogg cereal
company, and activity against “immoral” sexual activity like masturbation. He
invented Corn Flakes as a food to deter masturbation, as he believed that a
cause of “unnatural” sexual appetites was flavorful food, so he made a blander
source of nutrition to combat the urge to masturbate. He also heavily advocated
for circumcision for both children and adults because he believed that it would
decrease sexual pleasure for the penis, which would also discourage
masturbation. Take it from a Jew who’s been jerking the gherkin since he was 12:
It doesn’t work. Don’t circumcise your baby unless it’s for a religious reason,
or if the baby is born with a condition that requires it. Oh, and among people
who both enjoy sex with people with penises and care about whether or not it’s
circumcised, it’s pretty evenly split about which variety they actually prefer,
with the biggest factor in the preference being that individual’s culture. Edit:
There are a lot of non-Jews criticizing the practice in Judaism. I completely
understand, and your criticisms are valid. All I can speak for is my own
experience and what I’ve been able to look into. In my case and the case of many
Jewish men that I’ve talked to, both religious and non-religious, the rates of
resentment for circumcision are much lower among them than among non-Jews who
have been circumcised. I understand if you still believe it to be wrong, but do
not put out hate speech in the comments. This includes name-calling and
generalizations about any particular cultures. If you still believe that it’s
wrong for Jews and Muslims to do it, and that religion doesn’t justify it, you
are entitled to your opinion. Just please be respectful about it.
What, in your opinion, are the best words to use for genitals, body parts, sex acts, and other relevant things during sex?
https://lemmy.world/post/47028776
What, in your opinion, are the best words to use for genitals, body parts, sex acts, and other relevant things during sex? - Lemmy.World
What terminology do you prefer to use during the act? Do you prefer the
classics? Do you have your own sexy terms for things? How do your partners
respond when you use those terms?
Fingering a vagina? Curve your finger upwards!
https://lemmy.world/post/47004004
Fingering a vagina? Curve your finger upwards! - Lemmy.World
Don’t just keep the finger straight as you go. Not only do you miss major
pleasure centers, but you might actually hit the cervix, which may result in
pain or discomfort. Curving the finger upwards means it achieves optimal
friction over the G-spot and, is you reach deep enough, slides easily into the
anterior fornix to stimulate the A-spot. If you don’t know, that’s the pocket
just above the cervix that the penis would optimally slide into when doing
front-every PIV (missionary, cowgirl, etc). This is assuming the person is on
their back. The curve should be towards the anterior (front) side of their body.
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