I really envy people who have a comfort zone.

I just left, because group dynamics were too stressful, only to be more stressed by leaving, lonelyness, feeling of being excluded or rather excluding myself and ultimately self-hatred and doubting any progress that I ever made, because the biggest question still seems unsolvable.
The question of how to leave a comfort zone that doesn't exist looks easy in comparison to this: "If I have to love myself before anyone else can love me, and the reason I hate myself is because nobody ever loved me, does that mean I should just give up?"

#mh #GroupDynamics #FeelingLeftOut #SocialAnxiety #SocialPhobia #NotJustShy #NotJustLonely #SelfHatred

Look, there is a long history of saying that every accusation is an admission in the Trump administration.We he says "quiet piggy" to a reporter or calls a pageant contestant "Miss Piggy" it is clearly self- dissatisfaction with his slender 270lb frame, and an internal desire to stop talking before he says something self-incriminating. #quietpiggy #selfhatred

“If They Were Lighter, They Made It Through” — The Haunting Truth Behind Dominican Colorism

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#AfroCaribbeanRoots #antiBlackness #colonialism #colorism #DominicanIdentity #DominicanRepublicHistory #selfHatred #TheOrdinaryBruja #TrujilloLegacy

A quotation from Josh Billings

He who don’t luv himself vents hiz spleen bi hating everyboddy else.
 
[He who doesn’t love himself vents his spleen by hating everybody else.]

Josh Billings (1818-1885) American humorist, aphorist [pseud. of Henry Wheeler Shaw]
Everybody’s Friend, Or; Josh Billing’s Encyclopedia and Proverbial Philosophy of Wit and Humor, ch. 281 “Variety: Bred and Butter” (1874)

Sourcing, notes: wist.info/billings-josh/77758/

#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #joshbillings #hatred #loveyourneighbor #selfhatred #selfloathing #selflove

A quotation from Eric Hoffer

   The remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbor as ourselves: we do unto others as we do unto ourselves. We hate others when we hate ourselves. We are tolerant toward others when we tolerate ourselves. We forgive others when we forgive ourselves. We are prone to sacrifice others when we are ready to sacrifice ourselves.
   It is not love of self but hatred of self which is at the root of the troubles that afflict our world.

Eric Hoffer (1902-1983) American writer, philosopher, longshoreman
Passionate State of Mind, Aphorism 100 (1955)

Sourcing, notes: wist.info/hoffer-eric/23442/

#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #erichoffer #dountoothers #goldenrule #loveyourneighbor #selfhatred #selflove

Going to sleep hoping I don't wake up. Hugs #mentalhealth #selfhatred #depression #lonely

“The world according to Stephen Miller is a cruel and callous one, in which America is strictly for unhyphenated Americans and those here “illegally” must be forcibly returned to the “failed states” where they were born.”
#Nosferatu #Twisted #Racism #SelfHatred

https://www.thenation.com/article/politics/stephen-miller-hatemonger-biography/

The Cruel World According to Stephen Miller

How did he become the Trump era’s architect of hate? 

The Nation
Self-Improvement Win: This Man Found Someone He Hates More Than Himself

Hate is a word usually reserved for one’s most despised enemies, but what if the most pustulant, putrid, revolting human being you can think of is yourself? Well, if you’re self-described “subhuman clown boner,” Fleck Changstein, you spend the day loathing every inch of yourself, from your stupid hair to your weirdly knobby ankles. However, in a surprise twist of fate, Fleck recently found someone he hates even more than himself.

The Hard Times