Safe words are non-negotiable in all my BDSM interactions. They save you or your partner from damage, whether psychological or physical, or simply disappointment and hurt after the session ends. In some scenarios, they can save lives.

My guide to using safe words, and a look at the traffic light system:

https://carasutra.com/2020/03/bdsm-safewords-traffic-lights/

#BDSM #SafeWords #ConsentMatters #KinkEducation

It's a shame we don't use safewords in more contexts.

We really ought to be able to safeword out of a work call, or a doctor's appointment, or a family gathering.

#Safewords

The jolly greenbelt giant

#DougFord, #Greenbelt, #FOI, #SafeWords

https://samupress.ca/londontlife/the-jolly-greenbelt-giant/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=jetpack_social

"Patiently, I kneel in anticipation, craving the command that will ignite the fire within me, for in surrendering to my dominant's instructions, I find the sweetest release of desire." ~ Michelle Fegatofi

#KinkyLifestyle #ExploreYourDesires #BondagePlay #DomSubRelationships #SafeSaneConsensual #DungeonPlay #FetishLovers #PowerExchange #KinkExploration #SpankingFun #ExploreYourLimits #RoleplayAdventures #Safewords #PleasureandPain #SubmissionandDominance #ExploringKinks #DominanceAndSubmissio

Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.
#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.

#SentimentalDom

Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.

#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.

Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.

#SentimentalDom

1/4 I'm not someone who often post about kink or BDSM - but today I saw someone saying that safewords and BDSM (specifically D/s) were rape-culture and needing a safeword instead of stop/no was just proof of it.

And honestly, that just pissed me off, so the Mistress is coming out to say a few words.

In a D/s relationship everything is about 100% consent. Everything is discussed and agreed upon.

Including safewords.

#rant #kink #BDSM #safewords #sex #safewords #trust