It's a shame we don't use safewords in more contexts.
We really ought to be able to safeword out of a work call, or a doctor's appointment, or a family gathering.
It's a shame we don't use safewords in more contexts.
We really ought to be able to safeword out of a work call, or a doctor's appointment, or a family gathering.
The jolly greenbelt giant
"Patiently, I kneel in anticipation, craving the command that will ignite the fire within me, for in surrendering to my dominant's instructions, I find the sweetest release of desire." ~ Michelle Fegatofi
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Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.
#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.
Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.
#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.
Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.
1/4 I'm not someone who often post about kink or BDSM - but today I saw someone saying that safewords and BDSM (specifically D/s) were rape-culture and needing a safeword instead of stop/no was just proof of it.
And honestly, that just pissed me off, so the Mistress is coming out to say a few words.
In a D/s relationship everything is about 100% consent. Everything is discussed and agreed upon.
Including safewords.