It's a shame we don't use safewords in more contexts.

We really ought to be able to safeword out of a work call, or a doctor's appointment, or a family gathering.

#Safewords

The jolly greenbelt giant

#DougFord, #Greenbelt, #FOI, #SafeWords

samupress
Safe Words And Traffic Lights: How To Say Stop In BDSM

How do you say STOP in BDSM? Learn about safe words & traffic lights, WHEN to use safewords and WHY they're important. Plus what to do when you can't talk!

Cara Sutra
In dieser Folge sprechen Gäste über BDSM, Macht, Konsens, Kommunikation und gesellschaftliche Stigmata – offen, authentisch und aufklärend. 🎙️#BDSM #Bondage #Dominanz #Submission #Sex #Machtgefälle #Macht #Konsens #Kommunikation #SafeWords #Aftercare #Vorurteile #FiftyShadesofGrey #Kultur #PsychologieHirnforschung
BDSM: Warum fesselt es so viele?
BDSM: Warum fesselt es so viele?

In dieser Folge sprechen Gäste über BDSM, Macht, Konsens, Kommunikation und gesellschaftliche Stigmata – offen, authentisch und aufklärend

"Patiently, I kneel in anticipation, craving the command that will ignite the fire within me, for in surrendering to my dominant's instructions, I find the sweetest release of desire." ~ Michelle Fegatofi

#KinkyLifestyle #ExploreYourDesires #BondagePlay #DomSubRelationships #SafeSaneConsensual #DungeonPlay #FetishLovers #PowerExchange #KinkExploration #SpankingFun #ExploreYourLimits #RoleplayAdventures #Safewords #PleasureandPain #SubmissionandDominance #ExploringKinks #DominanceAndSubmissio

#Honestly. if you are a #toxic #dom in a #bdsm #dynamic that does not #respect #safewords and are #toxic and won't change. I will #haunt #you. I''ll be the #demon under your #bed. I don't fucking care if the thing in the #scene was ok last time. The safeword shall be respected at all fucking times, and you don't need an explination why it was used. It is your #responsibility as dom to make sure that your #sub feel #safe. I don't fucking care who you are.

Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.
#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.

#SentimentalDom

It has occurred to me several times since my Daddy and i have started to explore our #kinky sides that the #kink community has a lot to teach vanillas about safety. The emphasis on enthusiastic #consent, #SafeWords, and knowledge and skills makes having sex so much less fraught, even for those of us already in emotionally safe and loving relationships. These things should be mainstreamed.

Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.

#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.

Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.

#SentimentalDom

1/4 I'm not someone who often post about kink or BDSM - but today I saw someone saying that safewords and BDSM (specifically D/s) were rape-culture and needing a safeword instead of stop/no was just proof of it.

And honestly, that just pissed me off, so the Mistress is coming out to say a few words.

In a D/s relationship everything is about 100% consent. Everything is discussed and agreed upon.

Including safewords.

#rant #kink #BDSM #safewords #sex #safewords #trust