#sideBchristians

what are your thoughts? i trust you here because singleness is typically the preferred action over here and those are the options in my dilemma. pursuing friendship with potential of pre/marital commitment or pursuing friendship only and remaining single

i am #sideA #queerChristian #SSAchristian #LatterDaySaint i think #sideB would have better input on this

i don't want to be told "this is stupid." i have many many reasons, much (not all) of them not #internalizedHomophobia

i'm establishing personal contact with that young man at church and will have it be a sort of date, if he's interested

it can't hurt to get to know him better. categorically, he is someone i would be interested in aside from his gender

i think lunch at his place (where his dad and gma live, i am close with them already so that may be less weird.) or go to a café and chat. or just go eat after church etc

nothing definite. but a "getting to know." even as a #lesbian #ssachristian that's fine