i'm establishing personal contact with that young man at church and will have it be a sort of date, if he's interested
it can't hurt to get to know him better. categorically, he is someone i would be interested in aside from his gender
i think lunch at his place (where his dad and gma live, i am close with them already so that may be less weird.) or go to a café and chat. or just go eat after church etc
nothing definite. but a "getting to know." even as a #lesbian #ssachristian that's fine