The Relationship You Agreed to Without Reading the Terms
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#zsoltzsemba #relationships #relationshipexpectations #communication #unspokenrules #moderndating #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #menandrelationships #resentment #socialmedia #boundaries #selfawareness

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Hm, either the town is running out of money again or Code Enforcement has a new code warrior, or whatever the dudes are called.

They seem to be sending out citations to residents who fail the annual fire inspection. The old process was a reminder note, then a check, and a citation only if owners failed to fix the issues.

And they don't tell people what exactly needs to be fixed. I asked the person who told us if they were sure.... Yep. Sounds like a cop stopping

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#government #resentment

Loss - the belief in progress and the reality of experiences of loss.

* Grievance-fuelled violence at home and psychological harm reduction

"The family violence workforce is stretched in Western societies... 20 out of 38 reviewed cases of fatal family violence were "grievance-fuelled"...The Fixated Grievance Perpetrator Intervention Pilot brings together experts in forensic psychology and psychiatry, criminology, policing, perpetrator intervention and victim support."

World-first trial testing whether counterterrorism strategies can prevent domestic homicide >>
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-05-25/dv-new-trial-terrorism-domestic-violence-grievance-homicide/106658162
#violence #FamilyViolence #grievance #loss #ressentiment #precarity #masculinity #entitlement #resentment #anger #GenderBasedViolence #homicide #DV #terror #CrisisOfReproduction #crimes #HarmReduction #therapists #psychologisation

* The role of loss within society
Andreas Reckwitz 's book 'Loss, A Modern Predicament, The first comprehensive study of the role of loss within society", 2025 explains loss not only from a psychological perspective, but also from a sociological one.

"Loss has come to occupy a central position in late modernity – whether in the consequences of climate change or the entrenchment of negative expectations about the future, the ‘losers’ of post-industrial modernisation or the collective processing of ‘historical wounds’ and of who is acknowledged as the victims and perpetrators of these crimes, in a heightened psychological awareness of vulnerability, in political populism, a nostalgia for things past, or programmes of resilience."

"Loss is the bread and butter of populism." >>
https://res.cloudinary.com/suhrkamp/images/q_auto/v1742134247/151338/loss_9783518588222_sample_translation.pdf
#loss #progress #ProgressNarrative #improvement #credibility #modernity #stagnation #precariousness #experience #inequality #StatusAnxiety #SocialHierarchy #CollectiveExperiencesOfLoss #populism #nostalgia #socioanalysis #ClimateDisasters #PolyCrisis #WesternModernity #future #book

Republican President General Dwight David "Ike" #Eisenhower planned the World War II invasion of France in 1944, which cost a lot of lives but was major and successful step in ending a war begun by a lunatic autocrat.

Eisenhower accepted responsibility for this invasion, whichever way it went. He drafted a speech to deliver if the invasion failed: "The troops, the air and the Navy did all that bravery and devotion to duty could do. If any blame or fault attaches to the attempt, it is mine alone." A responsible president.

When John F. Kennedy was assassinated, democrat Lyndon B. Johnson reached across the aisle, and Eisenhower came to his aid: On a visit to the Oval Office, Ike wrote out what he thought LBJ should tell an emergency session of Congress. A helpful president.

That was the kind of man that the #Republican Party used to admire and elect.

#BonespurWarrior #grievance #resentment #revenge #corruption #aggrievement

A quotation from Samuel Johnson

Samuel Johnson (1709-1784) English writer, lexicographer, critic
Essay (1759-09-01), The Idler, No. 72

More about this quote: wist.info/johnson-samuel/29381…

#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #samueljohnson #bitterness #boredom #gloom #gloominess #idlehands #idleness #indolence #laziness #malcontent #meaninglessness #resentfulness #resentment #slacker #sullenness #uselessness #sloth

A quotation from Ben Franklin

Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790) American statesman, scientist, philosopher, aphorist
Poor Richard (1747 ed.)

More about this quote: wist.info/franklin-benjamin/58…

#quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #benfranklin #benjaminfranklin #poorrichard #poorrichardsalmanac #benefit #gratitude #grudge #harm #injury #kindness #memorial #offense #relationship #remembrance #resentment #forgiveness

#resentment : the state of holding something in the mind as a subject of contemplation, or of being inclined to reflect upon something

- French: ressentiment

- German: das Ressentiment

- Italian: risentimento

- Portuguese: ressentimento

- Spanish: resentimiento

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During the later stages of World War II and until 1950, millions of Germans and German-speaking persons fled or were expelled from various Eastern and Central European areas. It was the largest transfer of any single ethnic population in European history.

The German population east of Oder-Neisse was estimated at over 11 million in early 1945. The first mass flight of Germans followed the Red Army's advance.

#expulsion #deportation #displaced #refugees #ww2 #Europe #Poland #Germany #USSR #history #resettlement #Silesia #transfer #Sudetes #AfD #resentment #GermanSupremacy #supremacy