"Something new from Rhiannon Giddens"
Tnx, @ralphyboy

https://youtu.be/4KuqXh8CBXI?si=H-5NGoV6Lxp9E9-N

Rhiannon Giddens' "Carolina Rain," from the album 'Hope Is the Thing with Feathers,' due September 18 on Nonesuch Records.

> Baby where’d the time go
I feel it flyin by
All that work I thought I had to do
But everything I could ever want
I see it in your eyes
All I really care about is you

> Its true that we were younger once
And now we’re growing old
Why chase that dollar

#RhiannonGiddens #music #Perspective

Stupéfiant

Il était le doyen des immortels et « Stupéfiant ! » l’aimait beaucoup. Jean d’Ormesson nous a quittés début décembre. Il y a un an presque jour pour jour, il s’était confié à Léa Salamé dans la demeure de son maître en littérature, Chateaubriand, pour une interview à son image.

L’interview de Jean d’Ormesson – Stupéfiant !

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5655r8Sqik

Want to Feel Happier Every Day? These 12 Brain-Boosting Habits Can Help

Daily practices can literally rewire your brain to feel more joy. A behavioral psychiatrist tells us how.

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Key Takeaways

• Small daily actions—like showing kindness, finding humor, and stepping outside—can activate your brain’s reward system and help build a lasting sense of joy.
• Reflecting on your values, embracing gratitude, and imagining your best self can bring clarity, purpose, and emotional resilience.
• Practices like letting go of anger with compassion and taking breaks from digital distractions help reduce stress and boost overall happiness.

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If you think being a happier person isn’t in the cards for you, there’s some serious behavioral neuroscience that will change your mind for good (literally). “We have more control [over our happiness] than we think,” says Elissa Epel, PhD, professor and vice chair in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of California San Francisco and author of The Stress Prescription: Seven Days to More Joy and Ease. “We can take the reins and discover what we can do now—small things that can boost feelings of joy or contentment.”

This isn’t Epel’s way of saying we can just click our heels and make happiness happen. But her research indicates that no matter our innate temperament or external circumstances, we can sustainably increase our feelings of well-being. According to findings from The Big JOY Project, a worldwide citizen science endeavor that Epel co-created, the answer lies in the power of habits. Specifically, micro-habits—bite-sized, actionable, everyday behaviors and activities.

Consciously adopting positive habits and mindfully paying attention to their pleasant effects harnesses the power of our brain’s reward system. “When a behavior triggers a positive emotional response, we’re likely to remember this and do it again,” Epel says. “Awareness of how something makes us feel good can help us develop new positive habits.” Done with consistency and commitment, these micro-habits can actually rewire your brain to move through the world with more positivity. If that sounds good to you, check out these micro-acts drawn directly from The Big JOY Project. Happily, you can start them today.

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Elissa Epel, PhD, professor and vice chair in the Department of Psychiatry
at the University of California San Francisco and author of
The Stress Prescription: Seven Days to More Joy and Ease

Kristin Neff, associate professor of educational philosophy
at the University of Texas at Austin and self-compassion researcher

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01 of 12 Do 5 daily acts of kindness.

“Can you try to do five kind acts for others?” Epel asks. Think about gifting someone else with their own mini moment of joy. Send your friend a funny text message, call your grandfather, write a positive comment on an Instagram post, pick up a piece of trash, bring your doorman a latte. No need for big gestures (or price tags) here.

02 of 12 See the humor in life.

Humor increases feel-good neurotransmitters and reduces our physiological stress response. For a week, make a nightly practice of spending a few minutes writing down three funny things you heard, saw, or did during the day, and why they were funny. It can be a line from a TV show you watched, or a goofy song you made up for your cat. In one study, subjects who did this exercise every night for a week reduced their depression almost immediately—and even six months later, they felt happier than the group you didn’t do the exercise.

03 of 12 Experience nature every day.

Go outside every single day and let the natural light, sounds, smells, and surroundings lower your stress and lift your spirits.1 “Get outside and notice the views or urban greenery around [you] by opening up all of your senses and moving in a mindful way,” Epel says.

04 of 12 Reframe negative events to find a silver lining.

Bad things happen, and they will keep happening. Acknowledge the pain, the inconvenience, the anger (no toxic positivity here). But then work hard to “shift your perspective [by] finding the benefit within a daily hassle,” Epel says.

One helpful modification if you’re feeling particularly stuck in your pessimistic ways (remember, that’s just a habit you can break!), start even smaller: See if you can shift your perspective to find something more neutral about a setback or grievance. That situation stunk, but can you tolerate it? Will it pass? Have you gotten through something similar before?

05 of 12 Capitalize on positive events for others.

This goes along the lines of showing kindness toward others, but it’s really about listening and being present for your loved ones. “Solicit and actively listen to stories about what’s going well in other peoples’ lives,” Epel says.

06 of 12 Affirm your most important values often.

If our actions and life decisions don’t mesh with our deepest values, unhappiness is rarely far behind. Remind yourself of the things you value most in the world, then take stock of whether or not you’re living for them. “Rank the importance of four core values and write a brief account of how they show up in [your] life,” Epel suggests. Return to this list of values often to help you make hard decisions, to steer yourself back toward contentment, and ultimately find more purpose and happiness in everyday life.

07 of 12 Let go of anger through compassion.

It’s natural to be angry when someone hurts us. But dwelling on those painful feelings leaves us in an emotional quagmire—and when we try to push the feelings away, they only fester. If we can replace those negative emotions with compassion, we can develop empathy without denying the fact that we were hurt. In one study, English college students who were instructed to think about a past offense in a compassionate way reported greater empathy, forgiveness, and even a lower heart rate.

08 of 12 Cultivate a sense of awe.

Research suggests that experiencing awe—the feeling when we see an incredible landscape, hear an amazing piece of music, or hold a new baby—lifts us out of our day-to-day concerns and connects us to the feeling that we’re part of something bigger than ourselves. Think back to a time when you felt a sense of awe and write about it, describing it in as much detail as possible.

09 of 12 Imagine being your best possible self in your relationships.

Cast your mind into the future and think about your ideal family, romantic, and social life. How do you imagine your relationship with your partner, children, parents, or friends? Specifically describe how you’d interact, what you’d do together, and anything that might be different from the way you currently relate to each other. Instead of dwelling on past obstacles or disappointments, focus on how the future could be brighter, and be creative. According to the research, articulating specifically what you want, in an optimistic way, can give you a greater sense of control and motivate you to take steps toward this ideal future. Try this exercise 15 minutes a day for two weeks.

10 of 12 Take a self-compassion break.

When we experience difficulty or stress, self-criticism only adds to the pain. Try replacing it with self-compassion, guided by this exercise from self-compassion researcher Kristin Neff, associate professor of educational philosophy at the University of Texas at Austin.

Think of a difficult or stressful situation in your life and how it makes you feel. Now say to yourself, “This is suffering” or “This hurts.” You’re mindfully acknowledging the situation without judging it.

Next say “Suffering is a part of life” or “You’re not alone.” It’s a way to acknowledge that you’re human just like everyone else, and experiencing this painful situation doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you.

Now put your hands over your heart and say something comforting to yourself, like “May I be kind to myself” or “May I be strong.”

(If you prefer to listen to a guided audio version,
you can find recordings of this exercise and others at Neff’s site.:
  https://self-compassion.org/self-compassion-practices/#guided-practices )

11 of 12 Focus on gratitude.

How? Make it concrete: Write it down, say it out loud, think of it first thing in the morning. “Make a list of things you are grateful for, small and large,” Epel says. “Gratitude is an antidote to stress. We can set ourselves onto a more positive trajectory for the day if we start the morning with gratitude. When you wake up, think of something you’re grateful for.”

12 of 12 Do a digital detox.

Each day, try to part company from your devices for at least half an hour. Or delete the app that sucks away your time by tempting you to mindlessly scroll. By reducing screen time, we reclaim our time for activities that are truly fulfilling, we’re able to be more fully present, and we avoid the urge to unfavorably compare ourselves with others. In various studies, subjects who did some sort of digital detox (getting smartphone notifications in batches instead of throughout the day, leaving their phones out of the bedroom, or limiting social media) experienced positive results, including increased feelings of happiness and decreased feelings of anxiety and depression.

By Maggie Seaver                 June 26, 2026

Sources

Real Simple is committed to using high-quality, reputable sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts in our articles. Read our editorial guidelines to learn more about how we fact check our content for accuracy.

ScienceDaily. Spending time in nature reduces stress. Accessed May 2, 2023.

vanOyen Witvliet, C., DeYoung, N., Hofelich, A. J., & DeYoung, P. (2011). Compassionate reappraisal and emotion suppression as alternatives to offense-focused rumination: Implications for forgiveness and psychophysiological well-being. The Journal of Positive Psychology, 6(4), 286–299.

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L’énergie matérialisée

L’homme naît en tant qu’énergie matérialisée. Accepter le processus de transformation, comme étant réellement ce que nous sommes, offre une perspective un peu étroite de la vie. Des millions de personnes naissent comme nous avec un potentiel singulier. Si l’on accepte que l’aspect matérialisé de notre passage, la mort devient donc une dégénérescence au lieu d’être une phase de transformation.

La perspective que nous soyons quelque chose de matériel qui se développe connaît son apogée, puis son déclin peut laisser à penser que tout cela est futile, qu’il ne s’agit que d’un bon moment à passer.

Par ailleurs, en prenant en compte la dimension énergie qui nous habite, la formule scientifique E=mc², nous permet d’établir une équivalence entre la masse et l’énergie, tout corps matériel est, en un sens, de l’énergie condensée ou liée sous forme de matière. En effet, cela s’applique autant à un caillou qu’à un être humain. Toutefois, cette formule scientifique à elle seule ne nous apporte rien de spécifique sur la naissance ou sur ce qui fait qu’un humain est un humain. Elle ne distingue pas la matière vivante de la matière inerte ni l’individuation d’une conscience de l’agencement d’atomes.

De plus, la biologie ne confirme pas la théorie, car la matière qui compose un nouveau-né existait déjà sous forme matérielle, atomes hérités de l’alimentation, des parents, de la chaîne cosmique des éléments forgés dans les étoiles, etc. Avec cette analyse, il n’y a pas de conversion énergie-matière au moment de la naissance, mais plutôt, une réorganisation, une individuation d’une matière-énergie déjà là.

Des traditions spirituelles apportent un complément de perspective à la physique et à la biologie, parce qu’elles ne parlent pas de la même « énergie ». Dans la cosmologie chinoise, Zhang Zai, et plus largement le néo-confucianisme, le qi est ce souffle-énergie primordial qui se condense pour former les choses et les êtres, et qui se disperse à la mort. Ce cycle de condensation/dispersion présente l’énergie étant déjà porteuse d’une intelligibilité, d’un ordre. De même, dans la vision hindouiste, le védānta, on présente l’individuation, c’est-à-dire l’ātman comme étincelle du Brahman qui prend une forme sans cesser, en un sens plus profond, d’être identique à sa source.

Ces traditions évoquent un océan d’énergie ou de vagues humaines, de coraux célestes et de créatures de toutes sortes puissent apparaître et disparaître.

Une chanson de Daniel Bélanger – L’échec du matériel

Les paroles sur https://genius.com/Daniel-belanger-lechec-du-materiel-lyrics

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=igr-80oJKKI&list=RDigr-80oJKKI&start_radio=1

Par Daniel Jean dans Voies (x) de passage

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@hallvors
Nature gives the best you can handle. It honestly feels like it lives in our minds; everything around us was made perfectly to fit exactly who we are. 🌍✨

Take Norway and Sweden, for example. During their summer, the night stays so bright that you can literally work, run errands, and go about your day activities without needing streetlights. ☀️🇳🇴🇸🇪

But do you know that if it were to be Nigeria experiencing that kind of bright night, it would be a total disaster? 😭🇳🇬

Ask me why! 👇🏾

#Nature #Perspective #Nigeria #Mindset

The same love that makes you lose your senses makes others gain theirs.

Love takes you the way you take it. 💯✨

#Love #Perspective #LifeQuotes #Relationships

Childhood Beliefs: When the Moon Follows You

https://legawa.com/2026/06/27/childhood-beliefs-when-the-moon-follows-you/