Nonbinary people can wear anything and still be nonbinary.
So, if there's some piece of clothing, an accessory, jewelry, etc. that you like, then wear it (keeping issues of safety in mind, of course).
You, a nonbinary person, of all people should know that rules are meant to be broken.
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Life is hard right now for a lot of nonbinary people. It's understandable that you might feel like it's all too much to bear.
But if you give up now then there will be absolutely no chance for life to get better. As long as you are alive, then there's the possibility.
You can make it happen.
You shouldn't have to beg for connection just because you're nonbinary.
You can have high the same high standards for friendships, partners, or any relationships as cis people.
Don't accept less as an apology for being different.
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Any steps towards transitioning must be done for yourself.
You are the one who will live with the consequences of your choices whether that is living as you already are or taking steps to change things.
This is something that simply must be about you.
It's easy to develop issues with self esteem as a nonbinary person. On one hand you're told that you don't exist. On the other, you're accused of being or doing nearly every negative thing imaginable.
You are, in fact, worthy of all the good things in life just like other people, but it's okay if you don't believe it yet.
You'll get there.
Learning to live as an out nonbinary person is an ongoing process.
There is no designated place in many cultures for nonbinary people to fill. So, simply showing up requires carving a path for yourself through a changing cultural and political climate and balancing that against your own energy reserves.
It's okay you feel like you're always in some way "coming out" because that's probably the truth.
Being nonbinary does not make you "too weird" to have a social life.
There are plenty of people who would like to be your friend because of who you are, and being nonbinary is part of it. Not only can you find friends, you can build strong, healthy friendships.
You just need to look for them.
Having to change one's plans for life is normal. For nonbinary people without anything resembling a "road map" in life, course corrections are a given.
But that's okay. Such changes leave room for creativity and discovery, which is part of what living is about.
Nonbinary people are often dehumanized if we're acknowledged at all.
But you don't have to accept such dehumanization. Help to make space for a nonbinary existence in the story of humanity.
Humans are extremely creative and imaginative, after all. Nonbinary humans are no exception.
I'm proud of you for staying alive as a nonbinary person in the world as it is right now.
Life is tough but we can't just let the bigots win. If you check out, then they run the show a little more.
So, please keep up the good work of living a nonbinary life.
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