💥 Does your partner drink your energy, or does that person multiply it?
This is the only real rule for connection.
A lot of us think love means you have to be the Anchor. You spend all your time and energy carrying the other person. They are dead weight. They keep your ship stuck right where their small problems are. Your energy goes into carrying them, and you never move forward. That is a bad deal.
The right connection is the Sail or the Engine. They do not bring drama; they bring boost. They help your ship cut through the water faster, heading exactly where you want to go. Your energy gets bigger, not smaller.
This isn't just about dating. This is about everything. If someone drains your chance to expand, they are draining your sovereign power. Choose the multiplier every time.
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