自從用 #DigitalGarden 的概念記錄自己每天的感受,原本強烈的感受突然變得不再混沌不明,可以停下來感覺自己的身體反應,有脈絡地思考自己會有這樣感受的原因並紀錄下來。看著筆記從混亂慢慢沉澱,自己的行為模式開始清晰浮現,真的很像在花園親手種下種子細心呵護看它們日益茁壯。

這剛好呼應到最近在聽的 #TherapistUncensoredPodcast 第81集講到 #HealthyBoundaries 在心裡立起一牆 jello wall,當其它人或自己 make a comment 觸發到自己的心理防禦, 問自己兩個問題:Is it about me? Is it true?

我的 jello wall 是一座每天益發鬱鬱蔥蔥的花園🙂

Steps to set boundaries with yourself: Allow yourself time to rest. Stop comparing yourself to others. Be kind to yourself.

#healthyhabits #boundaries #healthyboundaries #selfcare #selflove #mentalwellness #mentalwellbeing #ymhc

Helicopter parenting often starts with love and worry 💛, but constant checking and stepping in can unintentionally affect a child’s confidence and independence.

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