Sex drive is a spectrum and I posit the same forces that prevent people from respecting Asexuality/Graysexuality also gave us slut-shaming

For example fascist ideas of "cultural degeneracy" that sex positivity will corrupt polite society is a rejection of the plurality of human experience.

People will be into weird kinks, people will do more sexual stuff than you, this is normal and natural.

#Queermisia #Asexuality #Graysexual #SexPositivity

Yearly reminder that:

⚫ it’s OKAY to not want #sex, not desire sex and/or not feel sexual attraction, feel it only rarely or under certain circumstances.

⚪ it’s OKAY to be #ace, #aspec, #asexual, #demisexual, #graysexual, #aceflux, #fraysexual or just generally defy the broken #sexuality norms in whatever way.

🟣 assumptions like "Everyone likes sex!" (#allonormativity) are #bullshit and go into the dumpster of history.

Happy #AceWeek!

#LGBTQIA+

Sorry, not a kinky stuff

PSA: if you ever used Feeld dating app, you need to know that all your data was available for virtually anyone for *very long time*.

This includes messages, photos, one-time messages, dating profile, likes and etc. But not just that, it was possible to impersonate you and send messages to anyone

This issue was found two times by two independent parties so most likely malicious/state actors knew about this. If someone manages to scrape this data, it might pop up somewhere for sale.

Worst part is that Feeld is silent about this.

Please, be safe and prepared as this data can be used for sextortion or worse.

It would help a lot if you’ll share this with people who might’ve been using Feeld. I’m posting about this because Feeld is popular in some places among the LGBTQA+.

https://fortbridge.co.uk/research/feeld-dating-app-nudes-data-publicly-available/

https://mjg59.dreamwidth.org/70061.html

#lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual #trans #queer #intersex #asexual #genderqueer #agender #genderquestioning #graysexual

Your child may not feel any form of attraction to other people now or ever. Your child may never feel romantic or sexual attraction to others as they grow up. Your child may fluctuate in their attraction to others, if they feel attracted at all. Your child may feel attraction to others, but in a very limited or restricted way.

This is okay. This is normal. Not everyone grows up to be what society expects us to be. Do not assume that your child will feel attraction, and make sure they understand that not feeling attracted to others is a valid option, despite the heteronormative pressure of society that says otherwise.

#Asexual #Graysexual #ASpec #LGBTQ #Queer

Hey lovely folks of fedi who are anywhere on the asexual spectrum 

A friend of ours¹ thinks they might be asexual, but they're doing the doubting questioning thing  (i.e., the thing we mostly all do with sexuality, gender, romanticity, neurodivergence etc.)

Please may we call upon your collective knowledge and experiences to share what asexuality means for you and help us bust some myths for others who might be questioning too?  

Thank you kindly in advance  

Boosts appreciated  

#asexual #demisexual #greysexual #graysexual #queer #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA+ #AskFedi

¹ Yes: we genuinely are asking for a friend! We are very much allosexual ourselves 😅😳

Edit: Changed the link, per a recommendation for a better wiki page 🥰

Edit 2: Thank you to all your varied answers so far! Please keep them coming! Hopefully this will help our friend and others who are questioning. But anyone wondering about us, your experiences very much confirm how allosexual we are 😅😳

Happy Pride Month from your grayace aro gal!

#graysexual #aromantic #grayace #pridemonth2024 #happypride #myart