Had a visitor for dinner yesterday.
A person who has been an acquaintance within the polyamory community that has grown to a friend as we were both at PolyCon.
One of the nice things whitin this community (and some other queer contexts) is that is was possible to straight up ask "Is this a friend date or a date date?"
The response was basically "We will see." And then developed with that he during some time have felt that there is an interest between us. And I explained how at least currently I don't have the mental bandwidth for relationship changes until most parts of life feel more stable. So a little more date date for him and friend date for me 🙃
But we had a good evening talking mainly about old things like clothes and furniture 🧥
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