A guy from Fetlife has found my VANILLA insta.. which is fine. I don't feel any sort of way about it.

BUT.

He's commented on one of my (once again..) VANILLA pictures. It's just a picture of my face, but he's made sexual comments about wanting to see where "all" my piercings are. It's fucking creepy to make sexual comments on non-sexual pictures without consent.

He's then commented again, asking me if I'm going to be attending either of the munches being held at [pub name] on [date] or [other date]. He specifically mentions they're Fetlife events.

This is not only outing me on a public platform, but it also tells everyone where I might physically be on these two dates.

This is potentially putting me in very real danger. But I'm sure he'd insist that he's a nice guy.

It's not good enough, guys.

Fucking do better.

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* yes, I am personally "out", but he doesn't know that.

** I don't attend in person events, so I won't be going to either of these munches, but again.. he doesn't know that.

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I just saw the most wholesome post in a FemDom group on Fetlife!

A submissive in Sydney who is a qualified air conditioning technician, offering to fix or service air conditioning units so that people are more comfortable in this weather. He's offering it no-strings-attached because he just wants to be useful and doesn't want people to be uncomfortable.

Bless him!

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What I didn't need this morning was to try and compassionately explain to someone why referring to their submissive as "my little autistic meltdown machine" is pretty fucking gross.

Especially when they're not autistic, and the people they're asking advice from are.

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