Other things that I know now and that I must hold on to in these dark, #fascistic times:

2.) #EnthusiasticConsent, #EmbodiedKnowledge, #BodilyAutonomy, #ReproductiveRights and the freedom to say yes or no to what my body wants and knows, to even sit with my body and know what my body wants and knows, all matter. I must strive to understand my body, to know what I want and need through my body, to listen to my body. My body is sacred, and it will protect me and see me through this situation, these experiences, whatever may come. Rest matters. Movement matters. My body is mine and not a tool for the reproduction of the #patriarchy or propoganda for #queerphobia or a machine to be used by #capitalism

#Fasicism #Fear #Hope #USPolitics #USPol

This is the reason why I'm not a true fetishest. I understand context clues. there's a difference between someone talking about either what they're wearing and how they decide to paint themselves in a casual manner and then there's the sexual way of describing it. Even though I identify as a #FootLover, as well as a #Kinkster, we get a bad reputation for being true fetishists and not understanding enthusiastic consent, look up Florida footsniffer for context. People like him make people like me look bad because of what people like me like, yet I don't blame people for being suspicious completely because its been on the news. It's okay to enjoy yourself and want to indulge in your kinks/fetishes however, understand the context of the situation and always, and I mean always get consent. If its not a hard yes, do not do things with a person. If you see a post where someone is describing something that seems interesting to you for example, if you're into boobs, what bra a woman is wearing, remember, they're not doing it to b sexualized, they're doing it to feel confident. If a woman posts about her painting her nails, remember, she's doing it for herself, not for your entertainment. Remember context clues and remember consent, because both matter. Let's be careful enough not to scare people by thinking with our bodies and not our minds. thanks for reading.
#FootFetish, #Feet, #Sex, #EnthusiasticConsent, #Kink, #Fetish

Coordinating Zooms, phone calls, and real-time meetups can feel so juicy + great after long periods of blinkered routine + relative isolation.

That planning can also get overwhelming.

"How to Guard Your Yes (and know when you haven't been doing it!)"
https://blackgirllostkeys.com/adhd/how-to-guard-your-yes/

#boundaries
#relationship
#friendship
#EmotionalLabor #TimeManagement
#IRL
#Ally
#disability #ADHD #EnthusiasticConsent

How to Guard Your Yes (and know when you haven't been doing it!)

Learning to say no puts you in charge of your time and other resources. I call this practice "guard your yes with your life." When you've learned to guard

Black Girl, Lost Keys

#FicRec: "constant star" by #AO3 user #tagteamme

 #TGCF #Hualian
 3,304 words, E #PWP #NSFW
 #Postcanon, #XieLian pushes through his #embarrassment to try riding #HuaCheng, and does his best to give him a show
 #NonverbalCommunication, Hualian's desire for each other, fluffy and hot
 #BottomXieLian #TopHuaCheng #Riding #EnthusiasticConsent

Link: https://archiveofourown.org/works/23862715

#DecRecs #HualianFanfic #NSFWFanfic #HualianFicRec #Fanfic #CanonCompliant #MXTX

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