Me & my family can relate to what Sharman experienced with her Mother's death. Sharman became a death doula after her Mom died.
We still can't afford any family burial plots. We keep Dad's urn with his memorial altar at home.
I got into death doula work in late 2023, months after Dad died.
When you're poor it is super expensive to be sick & it's also expensive to die. Funeral industry is a racket. I had to take out a small loan to cover all of Dad's funeral/memorial services.
https://mstdn.ca/@thetyee/116319135426441927
#Death #Funerals #PoorFamilies #CostOfDeath #DeathDoulas #EndOfLifeCare #GriefAndLoss #FamilyResponsibility
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Zena Sharman writes with candour about how expensive death is for poor families and the compromises that have to be made after someone passes. https://thetyee.ca/Culture/2026/03/27/Zena-Sharman-Staying-Power-Queer-Family-Rules/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=editorial






