I had developed dysphoria because I was too feminine and wanted to appear masculine. Or had to appear masculine? Everything I wanted before, female breasts, a bigger butt, and so on suddenly bothered me. Opposite dysphoria, then?
https://medium.com/prismnpen/im-in-a-constant-physical-battle-against-being-transgender-9b46ed49a815?sk=cbef1d8c2f2111b6c58e2067025a2ff2

#LGBTQ #Transgender #Dysphoria #Identity #SelfImage

I’m in a Constant Physical Battle Against Being Transgender

A story about dysphoria in two directions

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Advice for people that interact with trans women: don't tell her that she looks like any man. Not a "pretty" man, not a man with a feminine style, not a drag queen, none of that. You can't go wrong following this advice.

I'm surprised I have to even say this, but I do. Your trans sister, cousin, aunt, best friend, girlfriend, coworker, or random stranger does not want to hear that they look like any man. Ever.

#genderDysphoria #trans #dysphoria

Maybe I'm the only one who does this, but every time I am dysphoric I write a post on Mastodon about it and before I would publish it I instead just save it as a draft. I don't know if it helps, but at least it's kind of freeing up my mind. And yes, I just wrote a dysphoria post a couple of minutes ago since I feel like shit today.
#trans #transgender #dysphoria

After COVID hit, I dropped out of most of the RPGs I was in. Virtual being a pain was a convenient excuse, but really it was dysphoria. I’d been out to myself over three years, and the struggle to figure out who I was made it impossible to pretend to be someone else. Didn’t help that I was still almost completely closeted.

Fast forward to today, and I’m not only back in a few games (time permitting), but have started running a Fallout one based on XP to Level 3’s rules.
The latest session was yesterday, and while GMing always takes it out of me, I’m having fun slipping into these characters and trying to think like them. And I don’t have the anxiety around “pretending to be someone else”.

It is so good to be oneself and surrounded by people who love you for you.

#TransJoy
#TTRPG
#Dysphoria

Not Known At This Address - Canvas Print

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Not Known At This Address
That's what the envelope said. But why was it returned to him when he hadn't sent it? Curiosity got the better of him and he consulted a map of the area. The house in question had been demolished over 60 years ago...

#PhotoOfTheDay #Photography #Art #BlackandWhite #CanvasPrint #BelieveInFilm #Dysphoria #InteriorDesign #FilmIsNotDead

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When i can afford it and bills are out of the way in this realm after insurance and phonebill is there anyone i can commission for a mask for my vessel that is a snout shape and fits a p100 filter on the side basically for both aligning with the phantom snout protruding from my vessel aliving some pain and also for things like covid or working on the bus it can be a 3d model for 3d printing or made in other ways

Also please boost to help me find those willing to do such commission

#otherkin #nonhuman #dysphoria #fursuitmakers #3dmodels #furries #artists #commission #commissions

[P] I mean... Just be excellent to each other. Be dirty not DERTy.

#psychology #trans #enby #genderqueer #dysphoria

[P] Okay, a thread on r/AskLGBT was having no truck with DERTs and it was nice to see.

*infinitesimally optimistic tailwag.*

Seeing acceptance of all kinds is like a brain fuel to me. I feel a little more motivated and energised. I'm just sad it's such a rare treat. Be better, humanity, let me gorge myself on this.

#psychology #trans #enby #genderqueer #dysphoria

[P] Augh, I'm getting so fucking sick of DERTs. What's a DERT? Dyspboria-Exclusionary Radical Truscum. Essentialy, transmedicalists and their ilk who throw non-binary, genderqueer, species dysphoria, xenogender, and so on under the bus to make trans look more "normal" to the "normal" right-wing fascists who'll only ever see them as sub-human vassals. I love and supoort feminism and trans with all my heart, but I don't tolerate TERFs and DERTs.

#psychology #trans #enby #genderqueer #dysphoria

Great news: #Medicaid covered my #orchi . Just got the bill in the mail that shows that insurance covered it all and that it went through.

Good...I don't regret that one bit. But I do have lingering bottom #dysphoria from the dysphoria noodle.

Which is why I hunkered down and hyperfocused on looking at #vaginoplasty surgeons in the Midwest and narrowed it down to those that take Medicaid. And ascertained (to the best of my ability) their wait time and the reception post-op patients of theirs have had. And I've done the same for #BreastAugmentation surgeons and #FFS surgeons.

Thursday (my next day off besides the weekend) will have me making a call to set up a consultation for a vaginoplasty and for a BA. The hope is that I can get both done over the course of 2026 (with the BA earlier in the year and the vaginoplasty in the late months). Given the longer recovery times for FFS and that I DON'T want the recovery times to overlap, I'll go for that last.

#update #trans #transgirl #transgender #Transfem #transfemme #transbian #translesbian #transwoman #girlslikeus #life #surgery #ramble