Today was... Eventful.
My mother dropped me off to get brunch at a #Wendys while she started shopping at #Superstore, as we usually do.
Just as I sat down to eat my order, a woman came in and asked the staff they could help get a car, driven by a #disabledwoman unstuck in the parking lot.
I turn around to look out the window, and the "stuck car" is none other than the one I just got out of, two minutes ago.
*I've had some horrific lived experiences with both folks who have #DisabilityFetish & folks who were only interested in me as a #DisabledWoman dating experiment - without telling me, I'm an experiment. Both types of these experiences harmed me & are abusive & exploitive.*
When we talk about #DisabledPeople having awesome sex lives, sometimes something #dehumanizing creeps into the mix: Some (usually nondisabled) people profess an "attraction to disability."
When we talk about disabled people having awesome sex (sex: Different things people choose to do to actively express or enact sexuality and sexual feelings; often this involves genitals, but not always. ) lives, sometimes something dehumanizing creeps into the mix: Some (usually nondisabled) people profess an "attraction to disability." What they mean is they find disabled bodies — not disabled people — sexually stimulating. That means seeing your body as a sexual (sexual: About or relating in some way to sex or sexuality.) object. If that makes the hair on the back of your neck stand up, you're not alone.
👣 Here's a preview of my special video for FOOT lovers!
I let my puffy feet dangle off my chair.... then fall onto the grass.... talk about how I wish I could feel the grass.... massage my feet a bit.... and more! 🙂
✅ See the full video at https://onlyfans.com/708076798/theparatara
👩🦼 Travelling with disabilities: I have to plan for everything, and yet still manage to find the spontaneous
I wrote a very personal piece about travelling abroad while disabled:
"There are just some things that cannot be organised, but instead taken in your stride."
#disabilities #DisabilityRep #disabledwoman #disabledandhere #Accessiblity #Travel
https://www.nationalworld.com/lifestyle/travel/travelling-with-disabilities-4135395
During an yoga retreat in 2016, Suswati Basu first experienced symptoms of a congenital degenerative condition. Since then travelling has altered drastically but she hasn't let it stop her
Here's my absolutely awesome wheelchair. It's electric and folds by itself with a remote!
Father Enoch
Ms. Que Banh
PhoenixSerenity
♿ The Para Tara ♿
Suswati Basu (巴苏) 