It's also "thought terminating" to reject concern about #DEI as #racist , anti #inclusivity or #equality . Yes, some people can't be reached. But many would reply with "I'm not opposed, but ...". We must have the #difficultconversation with the confused ones. Kindly but firmly ask for #evidence for systemic problems, not hearsay or anecdote, and instead of defensively shutting out this type of attack they might start thinking. You only need to reach a few to start winning elections again.

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SG writes to Ask Alina for advice and support after realizing they want a divorce. With two young children, SG is feeling guilty and scared.

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