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Hoe fijn kan het zijn om naar onbezorgde jeugdherinneringen terug te grijpen en deze als inspiratie te gebruiken en deze met de buitenwereld te delen? In het geval van de voormalige Palma Violets bassist Chilli Jesson werkt dit echter niet zo. Aan de inspiratie zal het niet liggen, alleen wordt deze overschaduwd door pijn, waardoor […]

Written in Music
My dad died in 2021, but he's still listed on my car's paperwork. It makes me smile a bit every time I get something addressed to the both of us.

(We had joint ownership, so now I automatically have full ownership, no need to update the paperwork or go through probate.)
#deaddadsclub

Sending love to all my fellow Dead Dads Club members today.

Here’s mine. His name was Dave.
He was a hairdresser. He loved people and travelling. He was kind and generous.

It’s been two and a half years now and I miss him every day.

Tell me about your Dad?

#DeadDadsClub

Anyways, Arby's drive thru was fast and fizzy drink helps wash the emotions away. Curly fries make everything better. #COVID19 #cvspharmacy #clearsinuses #deaddadsclub
The American healthcare system is fucked and I wish I didn't have to interact with it. Latest thorn was trying to pick up an online order of COVID tests from the drive-thru pharmacy and, after 20 minutes in car line (stuck because there's barriers) I get told I have to go inside to pick up. I feel like crap and might be contagious. Good job, folks. I masked but still get sad dead dad† feelings mixed up with being physically too hot and now my sinuses are clear from crying.
†dad died of COVID and I'd hate to think I'd given COVID to someone else

Kicker was that the pharmacy clerk that told me I'd have to go inside had moved to the front desk by the time I got inside.
#COVID19 #cvspharmacy #clearsinuses #deaddadsclub
Dreamed last night that my dad was still alive. We talked about drafting supplies.

I remember my dad taking me to Paducah, Kentucky to visit the drafting supply store. He needed something for work. I think he also got me a Pentel 0.9 mechanical pencil. It was yellow.
#deaddadsclub #dream #grief

I listened to voicemails from my dad today. I have 3, from 2010, 2011, 2018. Less than 200kb. It's lovely to hear him concerned about me, making sure I wasn't calling from an unknown number in a strange area code to ask for money. Returning a real missed call. Letting me know his heart surgery went well.

It's been 4 years this month since I lost him to COVID-19 and it still stings. I wish I had more audio of his gentle voice.

#death #covid19 #grief #deaddadsclub

Someone on Facebook called me "harsh" for using the term "dead dad's club", so I asked them when their dad died (mine died 4 years ago next month). No response yet. #deaddadsclub #grief
Sending love to anyone else who isn’t feeling great about today.
Whether your Dad was great or isn’t great. Or for any other reason.
I see you. Be kind to yourself x
#DeadDadsClub #FathersDay