You can't design a community like you can a computer. The key component in communities is relationships.

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2020/08/14/community-and-techie-fallacy/

Community and Techie Fallacy

by Katarzyna Gajewska Have you met him already? It is usually a man, an engineer or other type of techie, who has understood it all. He has seen through and does not want to submit to the systemic …

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Laird Schaub was a community expert; he led the Foundation for Intentional Communities, was a force in the Federation of Egalitarian Communities, did consulting to many communities, and lived at Sandhill Community for many years. This is his thoughts on the "essential agreements' to make community work.

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2016/06/03/three-essential-agreements/

Three Essential Agreements

from Laird’s Commentary on Community and Consensus (Monday, May 18, 2009) Two days ago, the FIC held a Community Building Day at Kimberton Hills (30 miles west of Philadelphia) and about 56 p…

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Agreements

The ins and outs of making agreements

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If you're starting a community, you probably don't want to think about ending it. You probably should.

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2024/06/24/agreements-and-policies-12/

Agreements and Policies #12

12: Dissolving a Community by Raven Very few communities start by thinking that they’re not going to last very long.  Unfortunately, most communities don’t last very long. I certainly hope tha…

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If someone is causing problems in your community, how can you get them out? Maybe you should figure this out before it becomes a problem?

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2024/04/29/agreements-and-policies-11/

Agreements and Policies #11

11: Expelling a Member by Raven Okay.  Here’s yet another thing few new communities want to think about.  How and when do you tell someone to leave?  Who gets to decide?  What d…

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Sickness, disability, and death are scary subjects but they're part of life, and communities should be designed with them in mind.

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2024/03/25/agreements-and-policies-10/

Agreements and Policies #10

10: Sickness, Disability, and Death by Raven What a fun title.  Unfortunately, as communities age, so do its members and, at some point, at least some of your members are going to have health …

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Even if you are hoping never to have serious conflict in your community, it's important to have conflict resolution structures in place. You really don't want to have to be figuing them out in the middle of a conflict.

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2024/02/05/agreements-and-policies-8/

Agreements and Policies #8

8: Conflict Resolution Structures by Raven As I said in my last post, we are now into the trickier stuff, the stuff folks don’t want to think about, and conflict is the first of those things. …

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As you're starting a community, you want to think about people joining, not people leaving. But there will be people leaving at some point and it's important to handle departures well.

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2024/01/15/agreements-and-policies-7/

Agreements and Policies #7

by Raven 7:  Exit Agreements I’ve written a whole post on this before, why you should create Exit Agreements, and how we were structuring them at Glomus. Here I would like to provide some cont…

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Not every community seems to think that a membership policy is necessary, but my experience is that it can be essential.

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2023/11/27/agreements-and-policies-6/

Agreements and Policies #6

by Raven 6:  Membership I’m convinced that every community needs a membership process.  I’ve seen several communities that didn’t have one (including the one I’m in now) and it’s usually …

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Even in an income sharing community, there should be a way to splurge as little.

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https://communelifeblog.wordpress.com/2023/11/06/agreements-and-policies-5/

Agreements and Policies #5

by Raven 5:  Mad Money If you are trying to create a community, once you have your labor and financial systems, if you hope to be an income sharing community, you will need to think about how …

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