Failures in #Kindness
https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/GLpFovxZdwXYwmbkJ/failures-in-kindness
"…doing the other person a favor by being open & flexible
…this is computationally unkind: it offloads all the effort of coming up with ideas & making decisions to the other person. So while it is kind on one level (respecting their object level preferences), it's unkind on another (effort, and respecting their possible meta level preferences about the planning process)."
#BoundedRationality #ComputationalKindness
#choiceArchitecture
#decisionMaking
Failures in Kindness — LessWrong

There's a particular kind of widespread human behavior that is kind on the surface, but upon closer inspection reveals quite the opposite. This post…