After not being to the office for two weeks, one almost forgets how to work. But not as much as this little boi here, who has resigned himself to permanent unemployment.
At the gym, locked and training for the true purpose: pleasing Real Men and be humiliated for Their entertainment.
HAPPY LOCKTOBER! Here are some tips that have helped me be more comfortable in chastity
cross-posted from: https://lemmynsfw.com/post/20637806 [https://lemmynsfw.com/post/20637806] > - Trim your pubes, or at the least make sure any hair is not being pinched or pulled. > > - Get a VERY small amount of oil based lube and rub it on your balls and penis. > - I use less than a dime size of virgin coconut oil or petroleum jelly to lube everything. This will keep from getting issues with too much friction and rubbing while caged, it also helps things slide in easier. > > > - If you lube up, use a cloth to pull things into place. > - I pull my scrotum (NOT BALLS) into place to make sure they’re not pinched or squished, I do this with a washcloth to get better grip. > > > - Use an elastic chastity strap! > - When I first started trying out chastity I did not realize how much this helps. It keeps things from moving around and shifting SO much, it’s so worth it. > > > - Even if you have an elastic strap things will still move around a little! > - When you’re going to the bathroom, make sure your pee hole is properly exposed and not pushed behind some part of the cage, because let me tell you, having pee get stuck there HURTS. > - With micro cages I just take the head of the cage off to pee, because otherwise it’s just a mess and I end up having to still pee after I’m done anyway. > > > - If your member is tiled one way or the other, tilt the top of the cage slightly in the opposite direction. > > - I tilt to the left, and I noticed that my right ball would start to hurt sometimes, especially when I was erect. So I turned my cage every so slightly to the right and that happened way less. > > > - Take your time to find the right cage for you, look into how to measure everything and find a size that you think will fit for you. > - You can get kits of cages that have different sized rings, those are really good for beginners. But outside of that, there are several styles of cages, find which one is best for you! I think I’m up to 6 or 7? cages now, and some were super uncomfortable, some worked for specific times, like if I want to feel extra tiny, and some are for more general wear, like if I’m wearing a cage for an extended period of time. > > Please do leave any more tips you have in the comments!
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Domme Wife Switch Story 2 - Week of Chastity and Denial
After my last story, people seemed to enjoy it. I also really enjoyed writing it. It was fun to relive the experience through writing it out. After that story, I spent some time as Dom. I don’t as much enjoy writing in first person Dom perspective, but a brief break down of how I treated my sub while I was in charge: I required her to come to my office during breaks an suck my cock on her knees below my desk. She spent most days in a chastity belt. One of which we attached the anal plug attachment for. While enjoying a video game in bed, she was required to give me a slow hand job for a minimum of 30 minutes; if she got too close to making me cum, I would tell her to back off and fondle my balls a bit. I wanted to really stretch out her service for me. At the end of the 30 minutes minimum, she was allowed to gobble my cock until I blew a load down her throat. She was a good little sub and took my whole cock in her mouth and really showed that she wanted to drink up my cum. I also flipped the “hook show” idea on her and provided her a similar experience to the one she gave me, though her participation was more about wearing a strap-on, while wearing the anal hook, and hanging there while I rode a couple different dildos I stuck on her. Eventually I decided I wanted to ride her, so I had her lay on the bed and rode the fattest dildo we had on top of her while I jerked myself off and came on her chest and face. The final night before we switched, I had her get creative for me and she obediently went and put her self in a “lust circle”, a forced bent-over bar, and presented herself to me on the bed with her ass and pussy as the focal point. I was quite pleased with this, and at this point I was really craving some pussy, so i decided to reward her good behavior with some release. Her pussy was absolutely gushing, which is just how i like to eat it: moist and throbbing. After this I really wanted to see some pain mixed with her pleasure: can’t let her just have it easy, she is my sub after all, so I released her from the lust circle and flipped her over and really cranked on her nipples until her face contorted. I grabbed our riding crop and slapped the shit out of her tits, ass, and pussy lips. Finally, I just wanted to cum in my little slut so I rammed my cock in her pussy and yanked on her nipples until I was satisfied. My perspective as Sub after switching: We switched on Sunday, making her my domme. I spent the whole week being denied any sort of sexual stimulation, save for Monday where she briefly released my cock from the cage, then stuck my cock in her pussy, but just rested there while she pleasured herself with a vibe wand on her clit. Immediately upon cumming, she got up and left. Demanding that I return to the cage as soon as possible. Tuesday and Wednesday I got absolutely nothing, except some videos of her stimulating her clit with a vibrator while caged. Thursday I spend from noon to 8pm in a flat chastity cage. She required I wear it through all normal activities during this time, so I went to get a haircut with cage on, as well as a couple other errands like delivering a package to my dad’s office and dropping our child off at their friend’s house. I generally wear athletic clothing, and it’s hot out here now so I just wear some running shorts. Luckily the flat cage is quite discreet, even with such minimal clothing. At 5pm I requested to wear a butt plug for her pleasure, and she approved with a condition: it must be as small as possible. So I looked through our toy collection and found the tiniest butt plug we have, it is probably about 1.5 inches long and only a pinky-finger thick at the thickest point. I did as i was told and inserted it for the evening. Around 8pm, as our day time obligations wound down and our D/s personas could be less discreet, she gave me the key to my chastity cage and told me to remove it, but remain soft. To meet her demands, I turned on a cold shower and put my head under for about a minute to help me remain soft immediately after removing the cage. After this, I patiently waited for permission to join our room for her evening service. While waiting, she sent me photos and videos of her in a stunning outfit: crotchless lace leggings that went from foot to mid-stomach. Attached to the waist of these leggings was a strap that ran between her breasts to a tight neck strap. She also sent photos and videos of her pumping and fingering her pussy. She told me to enter our room naked, hard, and that I was to pleasure her with tongue and mouth ONLY, no hands could touch her, and I would pleasure her pussy and nipples while she watched porn. Upon entering, hard as requested, she applied some sort of erection maintaining cream to my cock and put on a leather cock collar that isolated my balls and strapped up the shaft to just below the tip with about 4 leather belts with buckles. The end of the cock collar had a loop for a leash. She clipped on a chain leash and then held it without slack as I obediently licked and sucked her nipples and all over her pussy. At points while I was sucking clit, she would tug repeatedly on the leash to indicate I should move back to her nipples. I did so as she reeled in the leach to maintain the tight grip she had on my cock and balls. This went on for at least 30 min, back and forth with my tongue and lips gracing each nipple, sucking, and exploring all parts of her pussy. I attempted to put intentional focus on every aspect of her amazing womanhood: I licked inside and outside of her lips, twirled my tongue around the entry of her vagina and stuck it as far down as I could. I sucked and rubbed my tongue on her clit as hard as I have ever sucked anything. It was a significant effort. While I was servicing her, she casually swiped through short porn clips on her phone. Sometimes, while sucking on her nipples, I was able to catch a glimpse of the porn she was enjoying. I caught sight of her watching clips of men being pegged by their dommes, ruined orgasms, and impact play. After she decided that she had enough servicing by mouth, she required that I lay on my back, and strapped me to the bed with restraints on my wrists and ankles and tightened them as hard as she could. I was almost entirely immobile. She removed the cock leash and collar, and then sat on my chest and used a vibrator to pleasure her clit while straddling me and leaving my cock alone. After some time, she got off of my chest and moved between my legs and pulled out a dildo to insert while she continued to pleasure herself with the wand vibrator on her clit. She appeared to be having intense pleasure. Looking up at her, with a complete lack of control, entirely submitted to her, I was also in complete ecstasy. I loved being used for her pleasure, and being commanded and controlled. Then she decided that after almost a week of denial, that she wanted to see me cum. So she pulled out a male masturbator and some lube and jerked me off slowly. Eventually, she could see that I was about to cum; it appears that while she wanted to watch me cum, she also wanted to make sure I wasn’t going to have typical enjoyment of it. She had always planned to ruin it. So right as I was about to peak and cum, she pulled off the sleeve and pulled her hands away. I sprayed cum all over my chest in a hot stream while my ruined orgasm left me paralyzed. She watched and laughed as her domination goals drizzled down my sides. This was the first time I had experienced a ruined orgasm. It felt great, but instead of an “explosion” that fades fairly rapidly, it was like 70% of the peak of a typical orgasm while I was spewing jizz, and then that 70% pleasure feeling just… stuck around for several minutes and then slowly faded. It was an incredible experience. I continue to be enamored by her femdom persona. Being denied and commanded is intoxicating. I want to be used, abused, and serve her every whim while she is in charge. By the time Thursday came, I was literally begging her to let me lick her pussy. I have to travel for work this week, but she will be sending me with equipment so she can domme from a distance. I expect to be sent with a couple of cages, dildos, and butt plugs and told to send pictures on demand for confirmation and her enjoyment. Once I return, I will assume Dom persona. I am going to use some of the fun tricks she has employed and string her along for much longer next time.
Changing Chastity cage type
So I been playing with chastity, and since I left my old one back home, I ordered a new one. The thing I had and I did notice once again, it’s not so discreet. — I have the classic cage at this moment [https://lemmynsfw.com/pictrs/image/8d6bd76a-d36c-4ad6-b305-7327280fd6fd.png] and I’m thinking moving into this type of cage [https://lemmynsfw.com/pictrs/image/3ccea358-15a8-42cf-8761-a2585ac0ef12.png] — Now! I want to listen your point of view, cages that you tested and where discreet, and if anyone used the second cage found it discreet.
Wife and I are dipping into Chastity Training and Switching
Two parts to this post, first a fun story about my day yesterday, and then some questions and call for advice and resources: My wife and I have recently started to experiment with chastity training. Started with a belt for her a couple months ago, and this week we got my first cock cage. Story Time: Yesterday I spent most of the day caged, with a couple hours free because we had company and I’m currently in a large cage that is not discreet under clothing. We are planning to train my way down. At the end of the evening my Domme invited me to a “Hook Show”. The audience (me) was required to wear a collar with a strap connected to an anal hook, cuffed to a ceiling anchor - a bar for our sex swing. During the Hook Show, the audience was instructed to only observe, any touching and the show would end immediately. Any instructions given must be followed immediately, or the show ends immediately. If the audience member was extremely lucky, and followed all instructions, they might get an opportunity for limited participation. I obediently donned the required uniform and cuffed myself to the ceiling anchor and awaited the start of the show with the anal hook inserted, strapped to my collar, and my cock still caged from the day. After what seemed like hours, she entered the show room wearing a tight latex body suit. After sizing me up to confirm that I had obeyed her instructions, she began to prep the room for the show. She laid out a spread on her stage, grabbed her tools which included a vibrator wand, a dildo, and lube. She zipped open the body suit to gain access to her pleasurable and after lubing up the dildo, she inserted it slowly into her ass, and backed up to the back wall of her stage and rode the dildo slowly and sensually on her hands and knees against the wall. After she got her fill of solo anal penetration, she zipped the body suit down the back to secure the dildo in her ass and rolled over and grabbed the wand to pleasure her clit. At this point, I remained obediently still and quiet observing the show, thankful to be invited for this viewing. She then decided that a single hole wasn’t quite enough sensation, and went to her toolbox to grab another (rather thick) dildo. On her way to her toolbox, she stopped by to come very close but refused to touch my cock, crouching to take a good close look at my pathetically restrained manhood. She was so close with her mouth that I could feel her breath on my cock. As she stood up, she touched her finger to the tip of my cock, scooping up the precum dripping out of it, and brought her finger to my mouth to deposit it directly onto my tongue. She then lubed up her second dildo, leaned against her stage platform, and inserted it in her pussy within a few feet from me, hanging and hooked, with an excellent view of her lips sliding around the fat black silicone cock. I wanted to be that dildo more than anything. After sliding it in and out vigorously for a while, she grabbed her wand and introduced it to her clit while holding the dildo in her pussy. She laid all the way back on the platform, pussy facing me with knees bent at the edge of the platform, and pleasured herself for a long time. The wand at max power, pushing the fat dildo in and out of her pussy, tilting her hips back and forth to cause the dildo in her ass to slide in and out (it was slightly visible where the zipper left an opening). After a few minutes, I suppose she decided I’d been behaving enough to receive a short reward: She uncuffed my wrists from the bar anchored to the ceiling and told me that I could touch when prompted, but ONLY with my tongue. She laid back down, still holding the dildo in her pussy and ass filled and kept in place by her latex body suit. After a couple more pumps of the dildo, she spread her legs wide and invited me to lick her clit. I got on my knees and leaned in carefully to obediently lick her clit while she pumped the dildo inside her resting at my chin. It seemed like a mere heartbeat before she commanded me to grab back onto the bar. So I did as I was told. She grabbed the wand again, leaned all the way back and forced me to watch as she let herself be consumed by pleasure. It looked like she orgasmed many times in the 10 or 15 minutes this went on. After her waves of pleasure calmed down, she decided that the show was over. She unhooked my collar from my anal hook, and told me I was free to relax. I faithfully removed my collar and hook and got myself dressed, completely unsatisfied and cock still caged. She did allow me to sleep uncaged for the night, this is a newer experience for us, but required that I re-cage first thing in the morning. So that’s what I did; first thing in the morning I washed and applied my cage again, and made her morning coffee and left her key waiting for with her coffee mug ready for her once she got up. I am writing this while enjoying my coffee, excited for how I might serve her more today. Request for advice: This was my first time having such an intense sexual experience without being allowed to be satisfied myself. The feeling of horniness is absolutely through the roof. I feel like I could cum a gallon. Her confidence and command is intoxicating. There’s a lot of kinky things we’ve never done, and I’ve let her know that she has free rein to require anything of me that she is interested in, which leaves the possibilities very mesmerizing; will she piss on me? Require a dam-less rim job? Jerk me off into her hand and feed me my cum? Try out sounding on me? Require me to wear a strap-on while caged and fuck her? The possibilities are endless and I am loving being powerless to it. That said, it will be my turn to Dom soon with her as my submissive in chastity. She has also given the green light to do whatever I please with her. I am very excited to use her for my ultimate pleasure, but anticipating being on the other side is giving me a bit of decision paralysis. What do I have her do? So many things would please me, but the humiliation and anticipation and spoiling her potential pleasure are part of the fun of being a submissive so I want to make sure I really make her work for my pleasure. I’m interested in whatever resources we should look into to consider how to amplify our experiences. I found OMGKinky.com [http://OMGKinky.com] which has some excellent guides, but since it’s written by a Femdom, it leans more into male chastity. This is great for my wife to use with me, but I’d love some equivalent material for me to consider for training her; some of it works either way, but it definitely leans male sub. I welcome any suggestions you have for what we should definitely introduce to our D/s switch play. Should I outline a specific schedule with daily requirements and punishments/rewards for her? I think for our upcoming switch off, I’d like to start with a handful of days of planning. We do have some daily life things that interferes with our play a bit, so some things can’t just be done during some days, and interactions must wait for evening, but I’m confident we can work around our schedules for other commitments. Thanks in advance, and I really hope you enjoyed my story time!
To pierce or not to pierce
I’m intrigued by the idea of a piercing-enforced (e.g., Prince Albert) chastity cage. There are two reasons for this. One, the inescapability (ouch!). Two, the idea of using a ringless device that I could, in theory, achieve 24/7 cage wear with. There are drawbacks to a urethral piercing, like peeing and the vulnerability to injury. I wear a Cherrykeeper cage, and I couldn’t if I got a PA - I’d need a special, much more expensive cage. I also question whether a PA fistula could support the weight of a plastic resin cage long-term. I’m a grower vs a shower, and I wonder if that makes a PA (cage) more challenging. So, I’ve been wearing my Cherrykeeper (which doesn’t integrate any piercing and uses a ring base [as is standard]) more to see how satisfying it can be if I attempt to wear it more regularly (removal only for cleaning would be optimal). Right now, I don’t sleep with my cage on. I clean it and put it on after showering in the morning and then wear it till just before bed time. When outside the home, I’m learning to position it better for when I’m sitting (it tugs) and to go to the bathroom more often to apply lube around the cage if it hurts. One thing I like about my Cherrykeeper is that it’s got a pretty large and well-positioned slit for peeing. Peeing at a urinal isn’t usually too bad. I did so in a crowded university washroom, knowing that if someone did look at my cock they might see my pink and white cage. Being out in public in chastity feels so right 🥰
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