You teach people how to treat you…
by what you allow…
what you tolerate…
and what you ignore.
So what are you teaching them?”

What are you teaching?

Your standards set the tone.

#Shorts #Boundaries #SelfRespect #KnowYourWorth #HealthyRelationships #CatAdvice #Mindset #ProfessorWhiskers

Sometimes you’re not losing people…
you’re outgrowing them. Your mindset changed. Your standards changed…and they stayed the same.
Growth changes your circle.

#Shorts #OutgrowingPeople #PersonalGrowth #SelfWorth #LevelUp #CatAdvice #Mindset #ProfessorWhiskers

Anyone can give you attention…
a text… a compliment… a moment.
But effort?
Consistency?
That’s rare.
Watch what they do.
#Shorts #EffortMatters #KnowYourWorth #DatingAdvice #Consistency #CatAdvice #Mindset #ProfessorWhiskers
I think all cats should be allowed on the kitchen counter…BUT if you disagree, I do have solutions for you that will make your cat even happier than being on the kitchen counter - https://www.sparklecat.com/special/stop-cat-jumping-on-counter #cats #CatsOfMastodon #Mastocats #catadvice #catsoffediverse #catlovers
Shinjuku really likes sitting inside this oversized plastic bag on top of my suitcase. I put it away when I’m not nearby because it doesn’t seem safe unattended. I wonder what I could get for her that would be safe and she’d like as much. She has a soft cat house that she never uses. Something about the tight fit but maybe also the crinkle that she likes? #CatsOfMastodon #CatAdvice #cats
Have you ever been petting a cat when suddenly they turned around and bit or swatted you? There’s a reason behind that and ways you can avoid it happening - https://www.sparklecat.com/special/when-petting-goes-wrong-understanding-overstimulation-in-cats #cats #CatsOfMastodon #Mastocats #catadvice #catsoffediverse #catlovers
PS- If you have a cat that’s understimulated or has a lot of energy they need to burn off - I highly recommend doing this tunnel system and playing with them while they’re zooming or chilling in it (when you can) otherwise leave it out for them overnight to play in! #cat #catcaretips #catadvice

RE: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:f3dcsz365o4zyt7uuqyliwgt/post/3m5f4qbysb22o
So...I have a neutered 5 year old male cat weighing 7.20 Kg with a bad temper and I need to introduce him to a spaded 2kg shy turtle-hair lady cat...the gentleman cat is not happy at all and he growls all over the place, even if they're in separate rooms. He used to own the whole house by himself; I take it he's being very territorial.
Any advice so I don't die from the injuries?
#cats #CatAdvice #catsofmastodon