The notion needs to die in cis men, that women and gender non-conforming people must always adjust their methods to suit and accommodate the comfort level of the man, rather than that man admitting fault to save face.
I won't be participating in petty accounts, or listening to an essay on your perceived subjectivity on the matter. My vocalized needs are non-negotiable ...I'm asking you to listen, then take the initiative and responsibility of adjustment on your own. This is the ONLY way towards dual prosperity. #cismen

"That cis men struggle with figuring out how to authentically express their emotions while being able to continue to differentiate themselves from women and other marginalized genders is not a feminist concern. It is patriarchy working to reconstitute itself in a new form and the result is the same: the centering of the emotional lives of cis men over the material needs of the gender marginalized."—Lee Cicuta

Cry Like A Fag, Scream Like A Woman >

https://butchanarchy.medium.com/cry-like-a-fag-scream-like-a-woman-9840a6ae375

#solidarity vs #differentiation #emotions #emotionalexpressions #masculinity #authenticity #hegemony #patriarchy #subservience #entitlements #gendermarginalized #MaGes vs #cismen #essay

Cry Like A Fag, Scream Like A Woman - Lee Cicuta - Medium

Cis men’s emotions — what they are, how they feel them, how they deal with them, what patriarchy expects from them — have been treated as a concern of feminist theory for the totality of its history…

Medium
Men Can Have Endometriosis: Symptoms, Causes, Treatment

People often categorize endometriosis as a “women's health” issue, leading many to think it's a disease of the female reproductive organs — but it's not. Here's what the research says and when to contact a doctor.

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Poster une demande pour avoir de l'aide pour un déménagement : recevoir des demandes qui pue la testostérone 😭
Les boug me précise bien qu'ils ont des énormes bras pour porter mes meubles.
Envie de caner
#masculinisme #cismen #demenagement

Today's short video:

#topless #transWOMEN banned from #WhiteHouse #Pride event but not topless #transMAN

https://www.tiktok.com/@toplesstopicstv/video/7244631232753978670?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7190473760471156270

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cte7IESOgim/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

https://youtu.be/q1b6zsUBv0A

at a #biden #government sponsored #pride event, a group of #transwomen #trans #activists were banned from attending future #whiteHouse events for the heinous unforgivable sin of posting chests-without-tops videos to #socialMedia, while the #transMAN right next to them who was ALSO chest-without-top, DIDN'T get banned. how curious!
honestly if you're surprised, you're not paying attention
over and over I've said, what better demonstrates the blatant #sexism and #misogyny of how a #transfolk or #nonbinary person gains or loses the right to go without a shirt in public and on #socialMedia? how is it not #transphobic AF to tell a transman "we don't care what you identify as- until you've had #topSurgery, #thepatriarchy has decided that you still look too female, and therefore will still be subjected to #censorship that all #AFAB and all #cisWomen face"? how is it not transphobic to say to a transwoman, "good thing you are flat chested with broad shoulders, that means you still get to enjoy the freedom to go shirtless in public as all AMAB and #CISmen!"? and that's not even getting into the nonsense of assigning gender, and therefore restricting rights, of those who identify as #genderless or #genderfluid!
WHY ARE MORE PEOPLE NOT OUTRAGED BY THIS?? how are the vast majority of #Americans, even supposed #liberals, #leftists and #progressives, just so unthinkingly accepting of this continued #injustice?

on TikTok

's short video with ♬ original sound

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I don't think I've done this yet, but I'm making my illustration The Men's Baths from my anthology https://t.co/vg8VWtQI9r After Dark public. The issue is free to download and read here:
https://dobescrusher.itch.io/wolvesgay-after-dark

Happy Pride everyone!

#lewd #erotica #furry #anthro #adultartist #adultartistsonmastodon #publicnudity #bathhouse #cruising #transmen #cismen #rule34 #wolves #wolves.gay #gaymen #publicsex

Wolves.Gay

Wolves.Gay

I feel that #future of #feminism hinges on our #transmasc brothers.

Us #transfems have already said and contributed a lot to #theory. Now I feel it's time to hear our fellow transmascs.

They face some interesting intersections of #privilege and non-privilege specially around their bodies. If they pass, they will be seen as people who don't menstruate and who don't get pregnant even tho reality is quite often the opposite. Additionally, their experiences with #testosterone and loss of being read as "safe" can give us an standard of sorts to which we can compare the grievances of #CisMen.

The more we have #trans folks (including #enbies) sharing their struggles and stories the more we can refine our understanding of #gender and #sexism.

This also helps us see how a lot of the problems with men are not about just straight or cis or cishet men but about that very tiny intersection of the, for lack of a better word, hegemonic default male: the prototype for which #patriarchy serves.

I hope to meet a masculine cis guy one day who is not threatened by my masculinity and constantly clues me that I'm too much, need to close my legs, take hair off, and "who produced your music? What do you mean you did, I didn't ask who singing, I mean who PRODUCED it?"
PS. I don't hate men, I'm actually worried for men, that much insecurity says a lot about society.
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#nonbinary #men #man #cismen #masculine #queer #London #UK #music #producer #producers #musicproducer