The Power of a Pause for Emotional Clarity
Introduction
There was a time—not too long ago—when frustration would crawl under my skin and detonate like a live wire. Someone would say the wrong thing, do something inconsiderate, or simply catch me in a moment when I hadn’t eaten, and boom—I’d explode.
But recently, I’ve been learning something my younger self never knew was possible: the magic of a pause.
The Personal Shift
This isn’t about being passive or swallowing injustice. This is emotional alchemy—taking the heat of a reaction and turning it into clarity, calm, and compassion.
Before, I used to get heated and blow up. Now, I notice how much better it is for me—and everyone around me—when I take a moment to breathe, reflect, and check myself before I wreck everything. This pause has helped me become a better human, maintain healthier relationships, and understand myself on a deeper level.
Marisol’s Journey in The Ordinary Bruja
Marisol’s story in The Ordinary Bruja reflects this growth. Her journey into self-awareness and ancestral magic begins not with fire—but with stillness. She has to face herself. Her fears. Her guilt. Her doubt. And she doesn’t power through by force. She pauses. She listens. She learns.
Before Marisol can reclaim her power, she must sit in her discomfort and choose to respond rather than react. That moment of pause becomes her turning point—and her strength.
A Challenge for You
Next time you feel that emotional rise—that tension behind your eyes, that tightness in your chest—don’t rush past it.
Pause.
Breathe.
Let the feeling speak, but don’t let it control the room.
That pause might just be the difference between burning a bridge and building one.
Closing Thoughts
This Monday, I’m not selling you perfection. I’m sharing a practice. One that’s changed my life, and maybe, will shift yours too.
You don’t have to be fearless. You don’t have to be unbothered.
You just have to pause long enough to choose who you really want to be.
Because that? That’s magic.
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