tired question on #tellonym and my answer

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Q: are you okay with your #girlfriend having a male #bestie?

A:
/sigh
This question and so many questions like it assume so much about people and get so much wrong.

#FRIENDS ARE PEOPLE YOU LIKE BUT NOT PEOPLE YOU WANT TO FUCK!

IF THEY ARE FRIENDS, THEY ARE NOT FUCKING!

FFS people. Do you even understand what friendship is?

And what about #bisexuals? Would you fucking ban them from having any friends?

Fuck off with this nonsense.

In that same posting, I wrote about Amity Blight and Luz Noceda sneaking into the library’s forbidden section in The Owl House. As a result, Amity loses her job. (111/?) #theowlhouse #librarians #lesbians #bisexuals

🔥 Debat sobre resistència i memòria de lesbianes i bisexuals en contextos de repressió
🤝 Una trobada entre Las Hijas de Safo, colectiva lesbofeminista de El Salvador i Orgull Crític del Camp de Tarragona, grup de dissdiències radicals del Camp de Tarragona
📅 Dijous 23 d'octubre de 19H a 20.30H
📍 Al Casal Popular Sageta de Foc

✊ Ara més que mai, organitzem-nos internacionalment contra el feixisme i la repressió

#Tarragona #debat #lesbianes #bisexuals #repressió

Fellow #Bisexuals! Today is our day!
After Trans People, Trump Now Erasing Bisexual People From Stonewall National Monument

The "History and Culture" page no longer includes bisexual rights.

Erin In The Morning

Now is the time for Bisexuals and Pansexuals to stand together with the rest of the LGBTQ community.

#Pride #PrideMonth #LGBTQ #Bisexuals #Pansexuals

To get to this point of #SelfAcceptance, I've had to sit with and undo a lot of internalized #biphobia. And I've had to come to terms with the fact that, while #bisexuals are part of the #LGBTQ community (in so much as it can be called a unified community), we also have our own unique experiences. So much of the media and discussions around #sexuality, even when they pay lip service to more fluid experiences of #desire and sexuality, is entirely focused on #monosexism, that is, on the idea that sexuality is a fixed and singular entity and experience. For some people it might be! But for others, it is not. And many both straight and cis spaces, as well as #queer spaces, all too often get caught up in one singular idea of what sex and sexuality and desire can or should or do look like, to the detriment of those of us whose experiences are more fluid and more difficult to define.

“I mean if you’re not willing to risk an FBI investigation, is it even really revenge?”

https://library.hrmtc.com/2025/05/06/i-mean-if-youre-not-willing-to-risk-an-fbi-investigation-is-it-even-really-revenge/

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"I mean if you're not willing to risk an FBI investigation, is it even really revenge?" - The Hermetic Library Blog

I mean if you’re not willing to risk an FBI investigation, is it even really revenge? Becky Albertalli, Imogen, Obviously [Amazon, Bookshop, Libro.fm, Publisher, Local Library] Consider also: “Weren’t librarians meant to care about educating kids? So what if that education was about dark magic?” “The desire for revenge rises within him, resplendent and gauche, […]

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