I quite like making a fuss about my birthday, but I don’t necessarily go out for dinner or anything on the day. Rather I invite people round for drinks on the following weekend.
What do you do?
"A day that is supposed to arrive draped in flowers, gifts, champagne, cake and people who love you – a day that is supposed to feel different from every other day. And when it doesn’t – when it feels like a Wednesday (because it is, in fact, a Wednesday) the gap between what you were promised and what you actually get can be quietly crushing.
"This is where the great birthday divide sits. There are two kinds of people in this world: Those who love their birthday with the unguarded enthusiasm of a golden retriever puppy begin the countdown in early January, while the other lot would genuinely prefer if the whole thing passed without incident – like a scheduled 3am phone update that doesn’t interrupt anything."
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