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" luxury afforded to you because acceptance is very temporary from other people. "

#SilenceOthers #BlockOthers /\

https://youtu.be/PPukR7PI834?t=723

"you want to be yourself just a little bit more but you do get that you kind of don't get that luxury afforded to you because acceptance is very temporary from other people... because you know if you if your child was two years old and it was acting up and you couldn't understand why it wasn't doing"

Adult with Autism | Dark Side of Autism | Late Autism Diagnosis

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imagine you’re a “normal person,” raised in a world built by and for #Autistics and populated with almost all Autistics, with the “normal people,” marginalized out of sight. You’re a normal sort, with three digits of IQ, you fancy you can put two and two together and you can see the Autistics have all sorts of problems, and you lived a full human lifetime among them, read a lifetime’s worth of their books- here’s my question:
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How well do you think you would understand them?
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#ND #ActuallyAutistic #Philosophy #AuDHD #Psychology @autistics
For #Autistics, how people-pleasing usually develops is basically when the people around you are either telling you explicitly or kind of subtly giving you the message over and over and over, that your natural autistic reactions to things aren’t acceptable. 1/3

Neurotypicals do tend to pick up social cues more easily than #Autistics.

But what they're often picking up are unhealthy relationship dynamics.

Just because it's easier for them doesn't mean they're better (nicer/fairer/healthier) at it.

Hi, I am WatzEtzFace. I am #AuDHD and a #HomelessVeteran I am looking for fellow #Autistics and #Trekkies as I am trying to unite people under a recently revived program I hope to help people with called #ResourceBasedEconomics It is a program that I am trying to reintroduce into.our economy. A program that can save lives! You can find more info on my tiktok/facebook/YTshorts. At least until I figure out how short form video works here! #CallingAllTrekkies #CallingAllAutistics
Although life is complicated and hard for everyone, as #Autistics, we’ve got this extra layer of difficulty because the way the world works is not currently adapted for how we work. 1/2
@autistics
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I didn't know the difference because my family of origin was the same - that's how it is for #Autistics - but my heart knew it, goddam I was lonely, who said it, you're never more lonely than with people around, they might have been one of us.
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That's one I'd love to shout at someone, goddam it was lonely living with you idiots. Like the bloody Martian, no human contact.
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Communication problems aren't always because of us.

A lot of people are bad at communication. Not just #Autistics.

A lot of allistics are really bad at it too. And sometimes the communication breakdown is their fault.

It's not always us. (Even when they claim otherwise.)

So we are now unconditionally buying a house.
Is it me, or is two #autistics buying a house a recipe for disaster? We've not had so many fights in 1 week ever before. Holy hell, _everything_ is disagreeable.
And I did/do not have the energy for any interaction...