Is my ex-crush TA for her reason for not wanting to date me?
https://thelemmy.club/post/38706325
Is my ex-crush TA for her reason for not wanting to date me? - The Lemmy Club
So, I no longer talk to Lexi (19F) anymore, but I used to have kind of a crush
on her as I get crushes pretty easily. She teased me about her crush on me so I
kinda thought she was interested. She said no at first but then said she’d think
about it, and shortly after asked me how much I weighed. I responded with around
170 lbs, I think, and she said she weighed 90 lbs and “didn’t want much of a
weight difference”. She then said “I don’t mean to be rude, but sorry, I don’t
date fat girls.”
AITA for trying to allow my wife to recover from surgery?
https://lemmy.world/post/38062752
AITA for trying to allow my wife to recover from surgery? - Lemmy.World
My wife had her thyroid removed yesterday. This after a battle with colon cancer
that she’s still suffering from the effects of chemo and most recently COVID. In
the recovery room, she asked for and received a few extra rounds of pain meds.
She’s just 60 and has had a bad run. She might have been admitted, but she hates
staying overnight so she smiled through it so she could go home and sleep. If
you know general anesthesia you know you get a sore throat. Plus the thyroid
surgery profoundly irritates the vocal cords and makes a single cough a trip to
hell. So the instructions include “talk as little as possible”. My kid is 15.
Sure he’s concerned about her. But instead of being quiet and letting her rest
he: - plays PC games extra late, shouting over his headset with his friends. -
at 11pm (after I’m asleep) he finally decides to check in and say goodnight to
my wife. - she’s awake after getting up to pee and take her pain meds. - he
keeps her up for the next 3-4 hours talking about nothing in particular. TALKING
When she’s not supposed to. At all. Hours after surgery. Still woozy from the
ordeal. I couldn’t take another day off work, so I find out about this after
he’s off to school on my way out the door. As she’s coughing up some blood. So I
text him to call me when he gets home. I tell him he made terrible choices last
night. That there we many other things that would have been better. There was no
loud words, I’m primarily disappointed that he didn’t seem to take into account
(or care about) the seriousness of her condition. He is unmoved and says he
needed to talk and had no other options. My wife doesn’t remember the “don’t
talk” instructions because she was still jacked up. I had to remind her that she
needed prescriptions at all. So now I’m the bad guy for overreacting. AITA?
AITA for dating my ex when we dated?
https://thelemmy.club/post/37056412
AITA for dating my ex when we dated? - The Lemmy Club
Last month, things were going well between me and Sophie. Later, I found out she
was aroace or on that spectrum, which she found out while we were dating, but
then got a new crush right after we broke up and made sexual jokes with people
while we dated whenever I wasn’t there. (I found out because my friend said
“your girlfriend is making sexy jokes with my boyfriend”). Sophie is very nice,
always has been even when we dated. However, she thinks she got forced into a
relationship and that I dated her just to be with someone, used her, all that
stuff even though I didn’t force her, she just asked me out after I confessed my
feelings to her. I wasn’t asking something like “will you go out with me?” over
and over, she was the one who initiated it. Maybe she felt like she had to
because I confessed to her? She also didn’t really have much feelings for me as
she’s arospec, so I was the one being all romantic and stuff and she just
wasn’t. I thought it was something wrong with me, but it looks like nothing went
wrong, she’s just arospec.
AITA for being pissed when people are called sluts, hoes, etc.?
https://thelemmy.club/post/36633108
Is she TA? - Lemmings.world
::: spoiler Content Warning: Accusations of pedophilia I (senior) am in high
school. We have a little friend group filled with people from different school
years. This one boy we have in our friend group, Benji (freshman) we sophomores,
seniors and juniors treat like a little brother, and he has a girlfriend Sara
(eighth grade). This one girl, Louise (freshman) repeatedly calls him a
pedophile and thinks he should not be dating her. It’s not like they’re having
sex and it’s only a year apart. Besides, my girlfriend is a sophomore and I’m a
senior and neither of us are having sex either. I think it’s alright. :::
AITA for not telling my new girlfriend I just want to be casual?
https://sh.itjust.works/post/46190215
Starlink 9-17 launch bulletin - sh.itjust.works
Starlink Group 9-17 launch out of SLC-4E in California currently scheduled for
2024-09-20 13:50 [https://dateful.com/convert/utc?t=1350&d=2024-09-20] UTC, or
2024-09-19 06:50 local time (PDT). B1075-13 to land on Of Course I Still Love
You. - NextSpaceflight page [https://nextspaceflight.com/launches/details/7630]
- SpaceX mission page
[https://www.spacex.com/launches/mission/?missionId=sl-9-17] Webcasts: - Space
Affairs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hJrDoL5OA78
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hJrDoL5OA78] - Spaceflight Now:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VeU4fcHq77Q
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VeU4fcHq77Q] - NASASpaceflight: - The Launch
Pad: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjAjk68Z7HE
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjAjk68Z7HE] - SpaceX:
https://x.com/SpaceX/status/1837125621203288194
[https://x.com/SpaceX/status/1837125621203288194] - The Space Devs:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXTOEnNAXws
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXTOEnNAXws]
AITA for preferring video games over my GF?
https://thelemmy.club/post/34738207
AITA for preferring video games over my GF? - The Lemmy Club
I’ve been busy with real-life friends and Minecraft to use Lemmy, but now I’m
back. I got a new girlfriend, we’ll call her Lexi. I haven’t texted her all day
because I can’t find anything to converse with her about and only talk to her in
real life when I see her on dates maybe once a week or two weeks. I will
occassionally say “hi” to her. I really like Minecraft, and I haven’t answered
my girlfriend’s texts all day because first: I was sleeping. Second: I was
playing Minecraft. I am obsessed with Minecraft and I would even say I prefer it
over real people, including my girlfriend. Considering I love my girlfriend,
that’s saying something. I also rarely think about her. She’s just a person to
me despite loving her. Minecraft is on the brain a lot.
AITA/in the wrong for being suspicious of my sister's school counselor?
https://lemmings.world/post/33877849
AITA/in the wrong for being suspicious of my sister's school counselor? - Lemmings.world
My sister (14F) is in the eighth grade. She has a school counselor that has said
stuff in the past, such as, despite the school saying they highly support the
LGBTQ community, saying she can’t affirm LGBTQ identities because “they lead to
mental illness and being gay/trans is caused by mental illness in the first
place.” She also defends very conservative parents, and practically begs for my
sister to vent to her by giving her snacks and stuff. Whenever she does vent,
she just defends the perpetrators rather than listen to my sister, so my sister
doesn’t trust her but wants the snacks. I just find this so odd and it was such
a twist from my high school, where the counselors absolutely affirm LGBTQ
identities and genuinely don’t care, they will treat you the same if you have a
boyfriend or girlfriend.
AITA for saying my girlfriend didn't have to buy me anything?
https://sh.itjust.works/post/45727449
AITA for saying my girlfriend didn't have to buy me anything? (more detailed) - sh.itjust.works
Yesterday, Rosa, my girlfriend (19F) went to my (19NB/F) house. When Rosa
entered the door, she came in with a burrito from a restaurant and a plush cat,
my favorite animal. I gladly took the presents, ate the burrito, and cuddled
with the plush cat, but I then said, “Thank you so much, Rosa, but you really
didn’t have to buy me anything.” I then clarified that I appreciated the gifts,
but I was fine with the two of us just hanging out at my place. She panicked and
said she had to get something. After she was taking a while, I decided to go
outside where she was going, and it turned out she was going back to her car.
She told me that she must’ve messed up everything and that she was a horrible
girlfriend for giving me something “I didn’t want”. I told her I did want it,
and we talked it out, but I can’t help but feel like the asshole for making Rosa
panic.
AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t have to buy me stuff?
https://sh.itjust.works/post/45723127
AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t have to buy me stuff? - sh.itjust.works
I met up with my girlfriend at my house yesterday. She got me a burrito from a
restaurant and a plushie, and I was happy to get the gifts, but told her she
didn’t have to get me stuff. She panicked and went outside and was about to get
in her car before I talked to her and let her know I appreciated the gifts. We
settled things but I did and do wonder if I was the asshole for not specifying I
liked them. (The burrito was delicious)
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