It was so cool yesterday! It was the first time I was called something other than "sir" or "mister" -- "ma'm". Not the use of "they" as a pronoun, but that day may one come.

Gives me further confidence in my transition away from a gender to agender.

#Agender #AgenderJoy

Brief moment of agender euphoria today. Looked up and saw myself in the mirror as myself, the grown up version of the person I was before I had gender forced on me at a very young age. It was a quiet recognition that filled my heart with joy and self-love.

#agenderJoy #transJoy #agender #nonBinary #transGEM

My whole childhood, my family bullied me for liking/wearing lesbian shoes. This continued right into my adult life until my parents died. It's also why I never cut my hair short, as I would have been bullied for that too.

I ordered some new boots this fall as i've rebuilt my old ones multiple times and though I love them, they aren't insulated and make my feet ache from the cold since I started dealing with pots and mecfs. I've owned them for 15 years. (?!)

My new boots arrived this morning. They are a little bit Andor, but mostly full Subaru.

I should have run away from home a million years ago.

So glad to be my full enby self even if I came at it much later in life. Spending 40 years not being able to breathe because of others expectations and not being able to leave because you can't afford to with what you get paid working for the family business was a complicated fate and I'm trying to make up for it whenever I can these days.

Be yourself, no matter how long it takes to get there.

#transGEM #TransJoy #agenderJoy